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After several inquiries about condom use.......
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After several inquiries about condom use....... In another group we belong to a poll was posted concerning condom use......of those who took it about half only used them from time to time depending on who they were with, the other almost half used them all the time and a few said never. We have been asked here on this site regurally concerning our use or thoughts and have decide a post was in order. Usually this is one of those topics for discussion, although most often, for those couples that are about to engage with each other or for those who have found close friendship and might be spending more time together and want a bit more. First it has to be said there are concerns and there are steps that can be taken to safe guard against those concerns. What I am going to write here are my opinions and observations and is in not way intended to sway or "talk" someone into changing his or her mind. I am writing this only in the hopes that I can put some clarity on the subject. The first myth is that condoms and vaginal dams prevent STDs. And the best real life answer is...sometimes...maybe. Yes they are better then nothing at all..if you are in fact with an infected person....but that isn't saying much is it. Under laboratory conditions and scientific research condoms as compare to ??? are better at protecting against STDs. Yes...as long as you do not: Touch gentiles with your hands, mouth, tongue or any part of your partners body and then touched any part of your body including brushing your mouth, eyes, nose, or your own genitals. This is including removing the used condom that the exterior is now coated with the secretions from the person it was used with....get the picture? We have said this for years......before we were involved with the lifestyle. Condoms help prevent unwanted pregnancies....but unless you have any sex act in a vacuum...cocoon...or in class A body protection suits with secondary features for condom and vaginal dam removal....not much. Basically the play runs like this: partners meet and engage in sex acts that include but are not limited to, hands touching, mouths touching, mouth and body contact, hand to body contact, hand to genital contact, mouth/hand and genital contact. Oral sex, oral sex to verge of cumming (male or female makes no difference) oral sex with orgasm, wearing of fluids/cum on hand or body, mouthing of genitals during orgasm and spitting or swallowing of cum. Then back to kissing, rubbing licking etc. Just prior to penetration...a condom might be put on....sometimes after much rubbing of genital against genitals first, then a condom. The point I am making anything except for possibly sperm to egg contact has already happened. Think of it as this. What do you do...what are all the steps you have to take to safe guard against catching the flu or common cold? Get the idea? Any other belief of projection is purely a feel good measure. And it is marketed that way for a reason..public panic. In the end (no pun) the wearing of a condom is a personal choice, the choice to not share fluids internally unless with your spouse...and that is as good a reason as any other. WE personally choose, with our friends we are intimate with, not to use condoms. How ever we will at thier request and from time to time when we have met someone new for the first time. We personally have made the choice and also have taken steps to insure that we can not have a pregnancy or create with someone else thru chosen sterilization. This works for us. We have those friends we are close to that we have grown to, as all things do, a point where we have chosen to share our selves with fully and exchange body fluids (sounds so terrible doesn't it) another words we are free with our bodies to share fully, and naturally with those we choose. Do we do this with all friends, no. Only with discussion and agreement with all concerned. Do we think of others, yes. Do we (men) pull out before cumming, yes when asked to, or no when asked. The ladies choice. And sometimes dependant on the situation: Private gathering or Party. And as in anything in this lifestyle "choice" is the magic word. I should also point out that this is truly with intimate friends we have as with most people who practice this level of lifestyle. We are not bed hoppers, we do not engage freely with those we just meet or just because they are "available". As many who know us we are just as happy in attending swing parties for the social stimulation as to meet others and potentially a new friend as we are to occasionlly play. We are not "choosey" but we do not just "lay down" either. We have been in this lifestyle a long long time. We have met so many great people, most of which we never shared in physical intimacy with. We are not surprised at the number of people who practice their extricular sex lives this way. I think it would surprise others more. Again, this is not an attempt to talk people out of using protection, condoms, but an attempt to bring to light just what they are truly used for and why and what level of protection you really get from using them. We would welcome anyone’s thoughts or questions. Sherper and Misty |
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. I really need to do something about this damned dyslexia! I thought this was titled, "After several injuries about condom use..." A very well-written and thought-out article, regardless...  In an intimate, group-setting: As regarding the dermal contact with unsolicited emissions, would it be considered a sin of omission not to have the furniture slip-covered in that clear vinyl shit, and to maybe also have any given K-Mart's entire Martha Stewart Collection towel inventory on hand? (And the night-stand, end table, patio, et al...) Personally, it skeeves me out, a little, to unexpectedly land a hand in a clammy puddle of my own jizz! . . Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.  And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written! Lately... .
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