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Updated on December 25, 2008

Lost is currently on hiatus. Seasons 5 and 6, the latter being the show's last, will each be of 17 hours.

Special Recap: Title Unknown
Airdate: January 21, 2009 at 8 p.m.



Episode 5.01: Because You Left (Season premiere)
Airdate: January 21, 2009 at 9 p.m.

* new 12/25 - The remaining island survivors start to feel the effects of the aftermath of moving the island, and Jack and Ben begin their quest to reunite the Oceanic 6 in order to return to the island with Locke's body in an attempt to save their former fellow castaways. Guest cast: L. Scott Caldwell as Rose, Sam Anderson as Bernard, Nestor Carbonell as Richard Alpert, William Mapother as Ethan Rom, Francois Chau as Dr. Marvin Candle,Sonya Walger as Penelope "Penny" Widmore, Alan Dale as Charles Widmore, Rebecca Mader as Charlotte Lewis, William Blanchett as Aaron, Sean Whalen as Neil Frogurt, Tom Irwin as Dan Norton, Michael Dempsey as foreman, Stephanie Smart as ticket agent, Leslie Ishii as woman, Cindy Paliracio as TV anchor, Brad Berryhill as anxious guy, Sven Lindstrom as crew member, Chantal Boomla as counter girl, Jeremy Colvin as security guard. Source: ABC
* 09/28 - We will come to learn that one of the following is true in Lost's fifth season premiere. A. The Island moved forward in time. B. The Island moved backward in time. C. The Island did not move in time, but it did move in space -- to another location on the planet. D. The Island did not move in time or space -- it's still there, but Dharma tech renders it invisible to the naked eye. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 09/18 - First scene we saw had Sawyer, Bernard, Rose, and Juliet. They appeared to be having a conversation in the jungle. Second scene had Charlotte and Miles, going back to camp. We watched for about 90 minutes. According to one of the crew, it was for Episode 5.01. Source: The Transmission

* 08/24 - Foreman: 40s to 50s, any ethnicity. A blue-collar construction worker. He's worked hard to get where he is and provide for his family. He cares deeply for his crew, hates it when management is condescending and arrogant but ultimately knows his place in the pecking order. Co-star. Martha:35 to 40, Asian, attractive. A smart, capable scientist with a strong personality who has taken a break to raise her baby but plans to work again. Completely believes in the work she is doing but sometimes questions the decisions of those in charge. Co-star, recurring. Dan: 40s, any ethnicity. A high-priced attorney, someone really sharp who can be friendly. However, there's a real menace lurking below the surface. Recurring guest star. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog

* 08/24 - Hurley and Sayid drive into the apartment complex parking lot in a late-model blue SUV. (It and the other cars have California plates.) They exit, Sayid looking sharp in a black shirt and dark khaki pants, Hurley wearing a thick, long, grey bathrobe over a blue T-shirt. Hurley's also holding a big burger and paper cup. They make their way stealthily up the stairs, and walk the length of the building, past several apartments. They work their way up to the top floor, Hurley eating the whole way. Finally they reach the apartment they're looking for. They confer for a moment. Sayid seems to reach for the top of the door, looking for a key, perhaps, when something startles them. Sayid pushes Hurley aside, and draws his gun, pointing it at the door. It opens, and there's a struggle inside. The next moment, Sayid throws a man over the railing to the asphalt four stories below. There's a second man inside. Shots ring out. Hurley emerges from the apartment, gun in his hand, and looks over the railing in disbelief. Looks like Sayid is introducing Hurley to his new career. Source: The Transmission



Episode 5.02: The Lie
Airdate: January 21, 2009 at 10 p.m.

* new 12/25 - Hurley and Sayid are on the run from the cops after stumbling into trouble at the safehouse; the island survivors come under attack by unknown forces; and an old friend offers some shocking advice to Kate in order to ensure that "the lie" remain a secret. Guest cast: Michelle Rodriguez as Ana Lucia, L. Scott Caldwell as Rose, Sam Anderson as Bernard, Sonya Walger as Penelope "Penny" Widmore, Rebecca Mader as Charlotte Lewis, Jeff Fahey as Frank Lapidus, Lillian Hurst as Carmen Reyes, Cheech Marin as David Reyes, William Blanchett as Aaron, Sean Whalen as Neil Frogurt, Tom Connolly as Jones, Mary Mara as Jill, Dana Sorman as Darlene, James Jeremiah as police officer, Stephanie Conching as nurse, Matthew Allan as Cunningham, Todd Bryant as Mattingly. Source: ABC

* 08/30 - Cunningham: Mid-20s to Early 30s. Any ethnicity. Athletic, used to living outdoors and off the land. He is a loyal soldier but willing to compromise with the enemy to protect his men. This role is introduced in 502 and has scenes in 503. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog

* 08/25 - Michelle Rodriguez [...] is returning to the show this season, multiple sources confirm. [...] Rodriguez is back for one episode, most likely this season's second. [...] The fact that Cheech Marin is also on the guest list for eppy 2 suggests that it's most likely a Hurley-centric outing. And after his encounter with Charlie's ghost last season, it's certainly feasible that Hurley would have an imaginary run-in with Ana Lucia. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 08/24 - Nigel: British, in his late teens. Despite being rough around the edges, mature well beyond his age and extremely smart. Must have English accent. Nice co-star. Will appear in episodes 502 and 503. Darlene: Early 20s, any ethnicity. A bored clerk who hates her sucky job and looks for any burst of excitement to get through the shift. Alternative in dress and style, plays guitar in her own band but needs the day job to pay the bills. Co-star. Jill: Late 20s to late 30s; any ethnicity. A butcher who is one hard-as-nails cool chick. A tomboy, bit of a searcher, and highly competent beyond her station in life. Co-star. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog

Episode 5.03: Jughead
Airdate: January 28 at 9 p.m.

* 09/18 - When action was called, Henry Ian Cusick raced into the heart of the bustling marketplace. Desmond was out of breath, sweaty, wearing an unbuttoned maroon paisley shirt rolled up to his elbows, light khaki pants, and blue canvas shoes. He was clutching a piece of paper, reading it, then scanning the crowd frantically. He called out a name, over and over, stopping and saying it to perplexed faces. He was looking for someone, but losing hope. Try as I might, I couldn't make out the first name. Althea? Theone? Was it a man, a woman, a ? From context, I'd guess it was a male name. But the last name was clear as day: Salonga. Source: The Transmission

* 09/18 - In Kaimuki, they were filming at the corner of 9th and Waialae Avenue . It is an accident scene where Hurley (stunt double was driving) speeds down the street and knocks over some boxes on the sidewalk before driving off. He's being chased by someone you'll never guess... Ana-Lucia in a police car. She was in the car the whole time, so I couldn't 100% confirm it was her but I'm pretty sure. I just don't want to speculate and be wrong. She had HUGE glasses on. I'm guessing flashback or hallucination. I should add that the stunt guy was wearing hospital type garb, so that's why I think it is in the present. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 09/17 - Solanga: Male, 50s, Filipino. The village doctor in a small, rural community. Has his vices but also genuine medical skills. Speaks relatively good English with an accent. Janitor: Male, late 40s or 50s, must have a British working class accent. Nosy, opinionated, resident rumor monger of a school. Knows everyone's business and can't keep a secret to save his life. Abigail : Female, 30s, British; working class. Stoic - but deeply wounded. Has a way with bitter sarcasm, though she's a loyal caregiver at heart. Theresa: Female, 30s, British, blonde. Pretty suffers from dementia but also has short periods of complete lucidity. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog

* 08/24 - Sophie: British and in her late teens. Is a seemingly innocent, prim and proper aristocrat but in actuality she hides a toughness and ingenuity underneath. Must have English accent. Nice co-star. Will appear in episode 503. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog



Episode 5.04: The Little Prince
Airdate: February 4, 2009

* 12/04 - A call sheet for episode 5.04, "The Little Prince," offers us some information about the episode. Here are a few tidbits from the call sheet: Charlotte will have a bloody nose and be passed out for a while. Faraday is by her side. It seems Miles and Juliet also have nosebleeds. The camp has been raided. Locke wants to return to the Orchid station. Sayid is attacked. Later, he reluctantly joins Ben to extract Hurley. Jack resigns from his job at the hospital. Eventually, Jack, Kate, Sayid, Ben and Sun are reunited. Jin's not dead. Ethan appears in a flashback. Source: TV Squad

* 10/02 - Sawyer, Juliet, Daniel, Miles, Charlotte, and ***** will learn Jin's fate at the precise moment we do: in episode 4. In other news, ask yourself this question: Why was Jorge Garcia shooting a scene in jail last week? Source: The Ausiello Files

* 09/30 - They're going to make us sweat out the fate of Jin. We won't see him at all for the first three episodes, and it's not until episodes four and five that we'll really understand what happened to him when the freighter exploded. [...] I'm now hearing from sources that Jin will be found Leo DiCaprio-in-Titanic style, floating on a door. Alive or dead? Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 09/28 - Dr. Evelyn Ariza: 30s-40s, any ethnicity. Chief of staff at a hospital. She's attractive with a great bed-side manner but tough and carries her authority well. Not afraid to make difficult decisions. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.05: This Place Is Death
Airdate: February 11, 2009

* 09/17 - Brigitte: Early 20s, Caucasian, French. Pretty and self-reliant. Works as a waitress in an up-scale restaurant in Tunisia and meets a mysterious stranger. Must speak French. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog



Episode 5.06: The Life and Death of Jeremy Bentham
Airdate: February 18, 2009

* 11/02 - Lost returned to Oahu Cemetery this morning, perhaps a fitting location on the brink of Halloween. The historic graveyard previously appeared in the Season 2 episode "Lockdown," as the not-quite-final resting place of Anthony Cooper. It seemed, at first, a peaceful scene, with Matthew Abbadon bringing a wheelchair-bound John Locke to a modest grave site for an intense conversation. But things turned quickly when it came time to leave. Locke, in the back seat of a blue four-door sedan, waited as Abbadon loaded his wheelchair into the trunk. But no sooner had Abbadon closed the lid, when shots rang out. And Abbadon is hit. Source: The Transmission

* 10/27 - Lance Reddick (a.k.a. corporate recruiter Matthew Abaddon, as well as Fringe's Phillip Broyles) was just spotted in Hawaii shooting what I assume is episode 5.06. Source: The Ausiello Files


* 10/12 - Hajer: Male, Arab, 30s-50s. A very local "doctor" who probably doesn't have a traditional medical degree but has the experience to tackle anything the harsh desert can throw at him. Tough bed-side manner but knows how to get the job done. Must speak Tunisian Arabic. Source: Lost Spoilers [Note: It's not clear when the character will appear. It could be in 5.07 instead of 5.06.]



Episode 5.07: 316
Airdate: February 25, 2009

* 12/18 - We're going to meet Jack's grandfather for the first time in episode 7! He'll be played by actor Raymond Barry, who's probably best known for his role as Tom Cruise's dad in Born on the Fourth of July. Source: The Ausiello Files


* 10/27 - Hal: 70s, Caucasian. Successful, handsome and charming rogue with a twinkle in his eye. A guy who can still fight the establishment and win. May recur. Mike: 30s-40s with Czech accent. A scientist. Very intelligent and creative. He's excited to show his boss his latest discovery. Has worked hard and knows he's on the brink of something big. Vicki: 30s-40s, any ethnicity, attractive. Charming, coy and knows how to get what she wants. Has spent a lifetime in bars and can read a guy better than he knows himself. Rupa: 20s, Indian (South Asian), pretty. Sweet, fun-loving professional young woman who can be tougher than she appears. Can deal with difficult customers with charm and ease. Nandi: Male, 30-35, Indian (South Asian) he's smart and professional. He's used to working with difficult and annoying people, so he's developed a kind but firm demeanor. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.08: LaFleur
Airdate: March 4, 2009

* 11/08 - Phil: Any ethnicity, mid-20s to mid-40s. Thin, serious, and in usually in a bad mood. Works in corporate security, a task master, runs his teams by the rules. Possible recur. Jerry: Any ethnicity, mid-20s to mid-30s. A bad boy. Dangerous, charming and always up for a good time. Works in corporate security; can be serious and tough when he needs to be. Possible recur. Doctor: Male, any ethnicity, 30s. Smart, hippy-ish, well-trained doctor who finds himself thrown into a situation outside of his medical experience and has to adjust. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 11/08 - Reiko Aylesworth is in negotiations for a major recurring role on ABC's Lost. In at least four episodes of ABC Studios' Lost, Aylesworth will play Amy, a smart and successful professional woman with a love for the outdoors who is looking for the right man. Source: The Hollywood Reporter

* 11/02 - Amy: A smart, attractive and charismatic Caucasian woman somewhere between 35-42 years old. She is outdoorsy and adventurous. She is comfortably successful at her job. Her love life is complicated and a reflection of her own complex nature. She is a woman many men find attractive and she likes qualities of each of her suitors but is looking for the whole package. Other women find her funny and honest. A significant recur of at least 4 episodes. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.09: Namatse
Airdate: March 11, 2009

* 12/04 - We have gotten the confirmation that [recurring character Marty Jankowsky] will be played by Eric Lange and that he will appear in at least two episodes. [...] As of now it seems like Marty will be a character with off-island scenes. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 11/20 - Marty Jankowsky: 40s to 50s, Caucasian, very smart and controlling. Marty has his own way of doing things and god help you if you cross him and/or try to alter his very precise process. A deep and free thinker he uses his fierce intellect as a weapon. Possible recur. Jack Ross: 30s, any ethnicity. A former air force bomber pilot who now uses his professional skills and unflappable demeanor to maintain order in a highly chaotic environment. He's smart, professional and competent. He keeps his wits as those around him in a crisis are losing theirs. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.10: He's Our You
Airdate: March 18, 2009

* 12/12 - [A scene set in Russia] was for Naveen Andrews, who stalked about dressed all in black (including a leather jacket). Most of the action happened behind closed doors, but the last scene depicted Sayid coming out of the building, holding something inside his jacket, and walking away. Bags of ice were spread across the sidewalk to depict snow. Interestingly, the same thing was done one block east on this same street for another Sayid scene (leaving a restaurant in Berlin). [...] After sundown, they turned up at Bishop Museum, where the show had recreated yet another Russian locale . According to my friend Jeff, a museum employee, both Naveen Andrews and Michael Emerson were on hand. He said they were in Red Square, and that fake snow was sprayed on the side of Hawaiian Hall and on cars parked along the lane. Source: The Transmission

* 12/04 - Young Boy: 8, must speak Arabic. Quiet and thoughtful who loves his older brother and is protective of him, can do what his father asks calmly and coolly. Source: Lost Spoilers
* 11/26 - Father: 40s, must speak Arabic. A domineering and quick-tempered father who's trying to bring his boys up properly. Feels he has to teach his a lesson about how to be a real man. Older boy: 12, must speak Arabic. Sensitive and kind-hearted, he's scared of his domineering father and knows he's a sad disappointment. Ivan: Late 30s to late 40s, pudgy, must have a Russian accent, wealthy, upper-class and has lived the good life, but gambling debts have caught up with him. Now he fears for his life from the Russian mob. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.11: Title Unknown
Airdate: March 25, 2009

* 12/18 - Erik: late 20s to 30s. Any ethnicity. Smart and dangerous. Tough military type. Follows orders and doesn't question them. He is a loyal soldier. Could possibly recur. Debra: late 20s to 30s. Any ethnicity. Intelligent field nurse. Can quickly respond to new emergencies. Strong, does not shrink from overwhelming situations. Source: Lost Spoilers



Episode 5.12: Title Unknown
Airdate: April 1, 2009

* 12/18 - Graham: Caucasian, male, 40. Blue eyes, 6 foot, English/British ONLY, confident, has come into his own and ready to be a leader. He's the SVP of a major financial corporation jockeying for the CEO position. Source: Lost Spoilers



General spoilers:

* 12/18 - [The Oceanic Six have to return to the island in separate groups because of some complications.] Source: TV Guide Online
* 12/12 - Summary of shooting reports sent to The Transmission: A new Dharma Logo was spotted on the Othersvlle set, the logo with a wrench in the center! Othersville is freshly painted and looks all nice and new. A Dharma "Processing Center" is a part of the set, which includes several props including pictures of new recruits. The latest date spotted was 1976! A yellow lab, possibly Vincent, was spotted. Regarding the VW filming on the cliff, Hurley was spotted in the driver seat while Sawyer had a Dharma jumpsuit on, but Jack was in the shirt in tie still. Kate and Lost producers Damon and Carlton were on set. At another set at Kawela Bay, some large props were spotted including a structure that seems like a 20 ft tall Teepee with out the covering. Plus, as part of their most recent podcast at The Transmission, we get a confirmation that we will see Young Charlotte and learn about her birthplace afterall perhaps via a Charlotte flashback or because the island has traveled back in time. Source: Lost Spoilers


* 12/12 - While driving up to Mokuleia today we stumbled onto the Lost set. They were filming a scene with Kate (Evangeline Lilly) and Hurley (Jorge Garcia) and his VW camper. They were pretty friendly though and let us pass through the set so we could walk all the way over to the NE-most point. Source: Blomdahl.org
* 12/04 - Rousseau and Walt could be back, but Michael will stay dead. Flashbacks and flash-forwards will be part of the mix, and be on the lookout for that four-toed statue. Oh, and don't expect that Desmond-Penny bliss to continue forever. Source: Sci Fi Wire

* 12/04 - Visiting fan Grant from Edmonton and his wife were able to catch them hard at work yesterday at Camp Erdman - otherwise known as Othersville - on the North Shore. [...] There were six main characters present. In addition to Kate, they saw Jack, Hurley, Sayid, Sawyer and Jin. Those last two names are particularly interesting to see. Sayid appeared to be wearing civilian clothes. Kate appeared to be wearing a dark blue jumpsuit. The rest - Jack, Hurley, Sawyer and Jin - were all wearing what appeared to be the DHARMA Intiative's familiar tan jumpsuits. There were also more than a dozen other actors, including a few in DHARMA tan jumpsuits, skirts and shorts. At least four new looking DHARMA Volkswagen vans, one Jeep, and a few blue bicycles scattered among the cabins. The left edge of a banner that began with the word "NEW." [...] "One thing for sure, though," he added. "They weren't wearing those jumpsuits to keep warm." Source: The Transmission
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11/20 - One theory making the rounds is that Amy, who'll be introduced during the show's fifth season, will be revealed to be someone from the early days of the Dharma Initiative. That would seem to confirm buzz that Ben transported the island and all of its inhabitants back to the '70s in last May's finale. At least Aylesworth can say with near certainty that Amy's love life will be complicated. "There's definitely some conflict with the suitors," she teases. Wait a second -- suitors , as in plural? How literal will the show's depiction of the '70s be? "Obviously, we want that to be a surprise," says executive producer Carlton Cuse. "Let's just say her role will be emotional." Source: The Ausiello Files

* 11/06 - Sayid will probably be the one to get a new love interest this season. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 11/04 - ABC's Lost spent Saturday in Kakaako near downtown Honolulu to film a three-car Locke oriented crash scene at South and Pohukaina streets which was closed to traffic and pedestrians most of the morning and afternoon. Lost Special Effects coordinator Archie Ahuna coordinated the crash and rigged the vehicles that included a Mercury Marquis, SUV, and and old Toyota Camry. [...] Two special effects scenes were shot, including the crash and later a near roll over. [...] In the scenes the cars had Oregon license plates. Source: Tim Ryan's Reel Hawaii

* 11/02 - Lost returned to downtown Honolulu this morning to film a New York street scene. The intersection of Bethel St. and Merchant St. was converted into the Upper West Side in Manhattan, with a tell-tale subway entrance ("Columbus & 67th St. Station"), New York cabs, some news racks, and an antique rugs shop ("established 1902?). The centerpiece, though, was Honolulu's upscale preschool, The Cole Academy. Through the power of quality set signage, its ornate entrance became the door to Fieldcroft School. Students, perhaps in their early teens, stood around with their backpacks. Nearby, a limousine waits. The scene involves John Locke, Matthew Abbadon, Ben Linus. and Walt Lloyd. I missed Ben, but was able to catch Walt and Locke - still in a wheelchair - talking across the street from the school as taxi cabs and pedestrians streamed past. Eventually, some other near the entrance call Walt over, and Abbadon helps Locke get into the back of a black Lincoln Town Car.

Locke has a blue cast on his leg, but is able to hobble over to the vehicle. [...] Lost returned to the campus of Windward Community College in Kaneohe today to film yet another scene at the "Santa Rosa Mental Institute," where our dear Hurley has been a tenant. From veteran spotter "Grappler" (who previously reported from the Windward side) comes this account of the day's filming: Hurley is relaxing on the hospital grounds, sitting on a bench and painting, when Locke arrives. Locke is in a wheelchair with a cast on his right leg, rolling himself up to Hurley's side. They have a conversation. Soon enough, Hurley jumps up. He calls out to a female orderly, perhaps his attendant, named "Susie." He asks her, "Am I talking to a guy in a wheelchair right now?" She affirms that Locke is really there. Hurley sits back down, and they talk some more, in even more hushed tones. Locke eventually gestures over his shoulder at someone. It's unclear whether this person is standing nearby, or is sitting in a mysterious black car with California plates parked in the distance. But from the context (and the stand-in on the set), chances are Locke is pointing at Abbadon.

At this, Hurley again jumps up, even more distressed. "What? Don't you know? He's evil!" He then jams his fingers in his ears, yelling, "I'm not hearing this! This is not happening!" He calls for Susie. "I'm ready to go back now!" Susie takes Hurley by the arm back into the hospital, leaving Locke behind. Source: The Transmission

* 10/27 - Sawyer and Juliet are fine. Faraday comes ashore, and he appears to be insane. He says he is from the past and not the future. Charlotte and Miles are fine as well. Charlotte does her best to keep Faraday calm but he keeps saying crazy things. These five are together until the attack. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 10/27 - Remember Desmond's all-knowing and slightly creepy friend from two seasons ago? The one played by the sublime Fionnula Flannigan? Well, according to my Lost moles, she is coming back this season, and we will learn that she has a very surprising connection. To another character. A major character. And the connection? It's a big one. That's all I'm saying. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 10/27 - I'm told there's one off-Island Dharma station in Australia, and I personally love and believe your guesses were right: The station is specifically in or around Ayers Rock/Uluru, the place Rose and Bernard visited on their honeymoon. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 10/27 - "My character starts explaining to Locke the mysteries of the island," says Nestor [Carbonell], who denies his character is actually the all-powerful Jacob. "There's a phenomenal twist." Mysteries from Charlotte 's past will shed further light on the island's history. "It appears I've come back to the island to look for my birthplace," says Rebecca [Mader]. Last season, viewers saw her in a Tunisian desert studying the remains of a polar bear. [Carlton] Cuse says viewers will soon learn why she's trying to find the island's bears - and confirms the Tunisian skeleton belonged to one of them. "We've seen several bear cages," [Damon] Lindelof says. "But none of the polar bears are accounted for." Source: TV Guide

* 10/12 - What I'm hearing is that the reason Jack, Kate, Sayid, Sun and Hurley need to reunite is because the Oceanic Six need to fan out to a group of Dharma stations. [...] These stations are not on the Island, but in other locations, and these off-Island stations are believed to be the ticket to getting back to the Island. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 10/12 - A reader over at BuddyTV, Moosky19, has just sent in this filming report. The scene witnessed took place at a Catholic school, though Moosky19 believes that they might have been using it as a church because they added an extra Jesus on the cross prop on the exterior. The scene had four main characters: Jack, Ben, Sun and Desmond. Yes, Desmond. Ben, Sun and Jack were using [a] Canton Rainier van. In the scene Moosky19 witnessed, Sun and Ben talk in a very serious manner once they exit the van. In the middle of the conversation, Ben pulls something out of his "man purse" and gives it to Sun. Whatever it was, it was small, Moosky19 thinking that maybe it was Jin's ring. Next, Desmond comes into the scene, and then they all run into the building. Desmond is wearing a wedding band. Did he and Penny get married? Also, Sun has a gun on her the whole time. Moosky19 also noted that everyone appeared to be pretty buddy-buddy with Ben the whole time, or at least they were working with him without animosity. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 10/02 - Lost rolled up to Hawaii Medical Center West, a.k.a. St. Francis, in Kalihi (just up the street from Hoffs Drawler and Simon's Butcher Shop) today. Parked in front, Jack's Ford Bronco, a blue cargo van with "Canton-Rainier Carpet Cleaning" emblazoned on the side, and a Los Angeles Paramedics ambulance. Matthew Fox, Naveen Andrews, and Michael Emerson are on the scene. Jack is on the phone as action is called. He learns that someone, or something, is somewhere else, and they need to get there "right now." Jack jumps into his truck, but Sayid and Ben hang back a moment to have an intense conversation. At one point, to adjust for a dip in the grass, Naveen Andrews stands on some sandbags to meet Michael Emerson eye to eye. Eventually, Sayid takes the wheel of the blue van, and Ben climbs into the passenger seat. They drive off. Source: The Transmission

* 10/02 - Ben's mission has changed, time has passed, he has different resources... and he moves around a lot. Source: TV Guide Online

* 09/28 - We can confirm that Sterling Beaumon, who played young Ben in "The Man Behind the Curtain", will be reprising his role again in Season 5. No details yet as to which episode he will be appearing in. [... In an upcoming episode,] Desmond and Penny have been flying under the radar for awhile and they're having a . They move around every few months and in this episode they are in a city named Mati. Ben is hot on their trail. Ben tortures someone from the Widmore Group. We find out that there are a handful of Dharma stations located throughout the world. They are not just on the island. [...] One of these 8 will die in the first 5 Episodes of Season 5: Juliet, Rose, Sawyer, Miles, Charlotte, Penny, Richard, Frank. Source: Lost Spoilers [Note: To read extremely spoilerish details about the Desmond, Juliet, Ben episode, click here.]

* 09/28 - This morning, they turned up in the heart of downtown Honolulu, taking over Alakea Street near South King St. - an immensely busy intersection. On the scene were Matthew Fox and Evangeline Lilly, and their respective cars (the classic Ford Bronco and the stylish silver Volvo). Jack gets out of his truck and crosses the street to Kate, sitting in her car. He kneels at her window, and they have a long conversation. Suddenly, Jack rises to his feet, and after a few more words, darts around the front of her car and jumps in the passenger seat. The pair then speed away. Later in the day they moved everything up the street, and up 16 floors, inside 1100 Alakea Plaza. No clue what was filmed behind closed doors, but at least one tenant thinks they saw Michael Emerson. Yesterday, Lost was running two units at disparate location shoots. First, they took over the Pacific Marina Inn off Lagoon Drive, right in the flight path of Honolulu International Airport.

It was a rainy morning, but they brought their rain trucks anyway, allowing them to conjure a downpour on cue. It was another Jack and Kate scene, but mum's the word on what happens at this motel. or where the motel's located. Meanwhile, on Queen Street, they filmed at the Honolulu Brewing and Malting Company building. This distinctive, historic red brick building previously hosted Lost as the loft Charlie shared with his brother Liam, but I'm pretty sure the structure was playing another time and place.

A green screen was set up on the sidewalk fronting the building, which means the scene could've been anywhere. My guess? London. Henry Ian Cusick was on the set. [...] Lost converted the public pool at Kaneohe District Park into a dark, angry ocean. In a canoe, paddling frantically, were Sawyer, Juliet, Miles, Daniel, Charlotte, and at the head of the crew, Locke. Manufactured rain poured down, and crewmembers made waves and rocked the boat, large overhead lights creating lightning, large orange fans creating wind. Dialogue was hard to make out over the roaring noise of all the equipment, but Sawyer seemed to yell for them to go back, but someone sees or hears something and they begin paddling in earnest towards it, trying to avoid capsizing and shielding their eyes from the flashes. Source: The Transmission

* 09/18 - Fans of Ghost Whisperer's online off-shoot, The Other Side, will be happy to know that Matthew Alan (aka "Danny") has booked a two-episode on the ABC drama. Source: TV Guide Online

* 09/18 - In the scene were Sawyer, Juliet, Charlotte, Miles, AND Faraday. The raft was on the beach. It seemed that Faraday was telling them something but we weren't aloud to get to close. So Faraday's alive or...it's a flashback of some sorts. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 09/18 - When the series returns for its penultimate season in early 2009, "the overriding question will be where did the island go and when did the island go," executive producer Carlton Cuse says. We will finally see the story of Danielle Rousseau's early years on the island, which found her research team slaughtered and her kidnapped. Off the island, an unlikely alliance will develop. "We're working on a story for the beginning of the season where Sayid, now an assassin working for Ben, and Hurley buddy up, which is really amusing," says Cuse. Source: TV Guide

* 09/18 - The Lost production crew returned to Kaimuki today, taking over the Chevron gas station at the corner of 11th and Harding avenues. It was renamed "Smith Stop and Run," and the price of regular unleaded was set to a tantalizing $3.22 a gallon. On the scene were Naveen Andrews and Jorge Garcia: Sayid looking badass in black, and Hurley in non-threatening pastel yellow. The pair flee the scene - Sayid looking tired or injured in the passenger seat - just as a silver Mercedes pulls in. It's Evangeline Lilly, stylish as ever in a maroon, floral print top. And behind Kate, a very young blond boy in a car seat. [.] We went out and saw them filming a scene with Elizabeth Mitchell and Josh Holloway. We also saw Vincent the dog! The scene had Sawyer, shirtless and in jeans, talking to Juliette. We also think they may have been shooting with "Rose" as well, as when we were walking by, we heard someone ask if Rose was ready and miked up. Source: The Transmission

* 09/11 - Saïd Taghmaoui, a French thesp most recently seen in the Don Cheadle thriller Traitor, [will join the show]. He'll play Caesar, a mystery man who...um...well, that's all we got. But the producers say the actor's skill set fits the part. "He has an innate intelligence, intensity, and danger we really responded to," says [Damon] Lindelof, who declined to specify whether Caesar is good or bad. However, [Carlton] Cuse teases that the character will be playing "an important part of the setup for the final act of the show in season 6." He also confirms that [Zuleikha] Robinson's Ilana is associated with Caesar, and likens her to Heath Ledger's Joker in The Dark Knight. "There was something very unsettling about the way the Joker kept telling different stories about his background -- something very similar to what we had planned for Ilana," he says. Look for a delayed introduction for the duo, beginning with an intriguing setup followed by a gradual increase in screen time that won't detract from established faves, much like how season 4's newbies, the Freighter Folk (Jeremy Davies, Rebecca Mader, Ken Leung, Jeff Fahey), were worked into the mix. (The producers say we'll be seeing more of the FF next year, too - even Fahey, last seen escaping the Island with the Oceanic 6). Source: The Ausiello Files

* 09/09 - Zuleikha Robinson has been tapped to play the pivotal role of Ilana. [...] Robinson's Lost deal calls for her to start off as a recurring player with an option to become a series regular in season 6 (a.k.a. the farewell season). As I first reported last month, Ilana is described as a European female who possesses great intelligence but who's also dangerous as all get out. She's alluring and apparently used to getting her own way. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 08/24 - Caesar: 35-45. He is dangerous, physical and extremely intelligent with a dark past. He is a mysterious man whose intentions are unclear. He can charm us or kill us. Recurring guest star with possible series option for season 6. Ilanna: 25-35. She is a European woman of great intelligence, powerful and charming yet incredibly dangerous, too. She is alluring and very used to getting her own way. Her past is deeply mysterious and dark. Recurring guest star with possible series option for season 6. Source: DocArzt's Lost Blog

* 08/24 - The Lost producers are looking for two ships, both need to be seaworthy. The main one they wanted was a big black ominous looking ship, but the ship company didn't have anything that was even remotely similar to what they described. However, they booked another ship and it's going to be a chase ship which goes after the big black one. The chase ship is the oldest ship in the marina and it looks like it's from the 1500's. Do you know why they would want boats that looked to be several hundred years old? They want to film out in the Pacific off the California coast in early September. Source: Lost Spoilers

* 08/13 - Sources confirm that Team Darlton is looking to introduce two new characters this season - and they're both as mysterious as they are lethal. They're also coming in as recurring players with an option to become series regulars in season 6. First up is Caesar, a dangerous, physical and extremely intelligent male between the ages of 35 and 45. Although his intentions are unclear, this much is certain: He's as skillful at charming people as he is at killing them. He also has a dark past, but, c'mon, that much was a given. The other newbie is Ilanna, a European female in her late 20s to early 30s who possesses great intelligence, but who's also dangerous as all get out. She's alluring and apparently used to getting her own way. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 08/13 - Richard Alpert will figure prominently in Season 5. The whole notion of "flashbacks" and "flash-forwards" will be reinvented, suggesting that upcoming episodes will span multiple time periods and perspectives. Jin will be back, but there's no word if he's dead or alive. It was strongly suggested that Faraday survived. Faraday's notebook will play a prominent role this season. We'll finally get Rousseau's back-story, but Darlton cautioned that it would be wrong to call it a "flashback" episode. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 07/27 - You will see Claire again. Not right away, but what happened with her will be explained. [...] We will see Rousseau's story, to use the word "flashback" might be disingenious. [...] Vincent's okay and will appear in season five. [...] Kate will see Sawyer again. [... The nonspeaking "beachies" who were ferried to the blown-up boat are] dead. Faraday is probably gonna be okay. [...] This year, when season five starts, you're not going to know when and where you are. There will be storytelling both on and off the Island and in different periods of time. [...] We will see Richard Alpert barefoot in the very near future. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 07/20 - [Carlton] Cuse teases we'll see more of Daniel Dae Kim "in some form" this season despite Jin's apparent death. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 07/20 - As for teases on the new season, as usual the executive producers are tight lipped, but they do reveal this season will be about the Oceanic 6 getting back to the island. "The people that are off the island, the island seems to be drawing them back and Ben makes it clear they need to go back to the island," says [Carlton] Cuse. "So hopefully that's a lot of what you'll see of in Season 5 -- the journey how those six return to the island." Source: iFMagazine

* 07/12 - John Terry (Christian) and Alan Dale (Widmore) are in talks to return next season on a recurring basis. In the fine print of both their contracts, it states that Lost has the right to pick up series regular options on both actors for the show's sixth and final season. Source: The Ausiello Files

* 06/12 - Jin is gonna be fine. I suspect that the difference between Michael's and Jin's survival is that Michael was trapped inside the hold, whereas Jin being up on the edge of the deck meant he had a chance to be blown clear of the ship. Emilie de Ravin will be on a holding contract with Lost for season five and returning in season six. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 05/21 - A series regular who has been on the series since the first season will not be back next season (season five). According to inside sources, this person's contract has been put into a holding deal and the plan at this point is to have him or her return for season six. It is not Jack or Sawyer. It's a she. Remember how I told you that time traveling and teleporting is most definitely happening? Well, let's just say that it's going to be happening on a much larger scale in the coming seasons. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 05/10 - Carlton Cuse and Damon Lindelof reveal: [Time travel definitely plays a part in the series...] You will learn a lot more about Richard Alpert as the show goes on. He is going to become more prominent in the future of the show. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 05/07 - Sawyer doesn't die. He's alive. On the Island. [Locke is alive on the Island in the future.] Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 04/23 - We will find out more back story as to why the late Libby was in the same mental hospital with Hurley, prior to the plane crash, and presumably after she gave her boat to Desmond for the race. [We will] at some point catch up with Emma and Zack, the two from the tail section group of survivors who were kidnapped by the Others in season 2's "The Other 48 Days." To the question of whether we'll ever see Katey Sagal's Helen character (Locke's former flame) again, Darlton indicated that they hoped so. To the question of whether the DeGroots, the hirsute couple who founded the Dharma Initiative, are still alive, Cuse and Lindelof paused a bit and then pressed for more specificity on the time frame of the question. As of where the time line of "Lost" will be when the series returns on April 24, Darlton would only say: "One of them is." Lindelof let it be known that in a recent episode when one of the castaways asked Ben if he knew what the island's smoke monster really was and Ben responded that he didn't know -- big lie. "Ben was lying about the smoke monster," Lindelof said. Source: Variety

* 04/23 - The four-toed statue "will be back on the show," says Damon [Lindelof]. "People will learn who built it and why it has four toes." Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 02/26 - Season 5 is about why they need to get back, and season 6 is about what happens when they get back. Source: New York Post

* 12/16/2007 - Lost Spoilers resumed the spoilers released in the Season 3 DVD commentaries: Horace Goodspeed and Olivia are important to the DHARMA story, and we can expect to see more of them in the future. Speaking of volcanoes, there is one on the island. Damon says it will be of "seismic importance" (pun very much intended.) Annie is an extremely important part of the island's backstory, and it is a planned chapter to come. Annie is more important than the Goodspeeds or the volcano. We have not seen Ben's motivation for his role in the purge, but we will. Source: Lost's Season 3 DVD

* 10/02/2007 - Among the spoilers Lindelof revealed: The show's producers have already figured out what they will do with the mysterious character of Jacob, who was introduced at the end of season three. Picking his words carefully, executive producer Carlton Cuse said, "Yes, we do know how Jacob will be depicted. Notice the careful wording of my answer. And no, Jacob did not appear before he was met by Locke." Source: Sci Fi Wire

* 09/20/2007 - Lost executive producer Carlton Cuse confirms that [Cynthia Watros] will be playing Hurley's dearly departed sweetheart [Libby] again this season for multiple episodes, presumably in more of Desmond's flashbacks. "She'll be in enough of the show for us to fill in the missing pieces of her story," says Cuse. Source: The Ausiello Report

* 05/03/2007 - Damon Lindelof and Carlton Cuse were on the Drew and Mike radio show. They revealed that the smoke monster will not be explained until the end of the series. Source: The Tail Section

* 05/01/2007 - Lost Spoilers offers us a summary of the spoilers Cuse and Lindelof revealed in the latest podcast: They will be revisiting the psychic's predictions for Claire in the future as well as Walt's abilities. The Others' obsession with and pregnancy goes beyond the inability to successfully bear on the island. The Other's definitely have an interest in with special abilities. That's why they took Walt. There are two factions of The Others and are in no relation to the hatches/stations. They will be getting back to the statue before the show ends. Source: Lost Podcasts

* 04/23/2007 - Lost Spoilers offers us a summary of the spoilers Cuse and Lindelof revealed in the latest podcast: There will be a Rousseau flashback eventually. In it, it will talk about Montand and his arm. Source: Lost Podcasts

* 02/12/2006 - Carlton Cuse and Damon Lindelof reveal: Given everything else we have to tell, [Libby's story] is going to be a mystery that's going to have to get answered in year 4. There's really one significant missing piece to Libby's story. We saw in the season finale last year that she met with Desmond, she gave him his boat, and we know that her husband died – and then we know that subsequent to that, she spent some time in a mental institution, the same one as Hurley. The question the audience wants answered is, How did she get from A to B – from Desmond to the mental institution? We know the answer to that question, but the only way to tell that story is through another character's flashback, and that character would have to be another character on the show who is not among the beach dwellers. Source: Kristin on E!Online

* 11/08/2006 - [Eko might be back and it] might not necessarily be a flashback episode. Source: Ask Ausiello @ TV Guide

* 07/22/2006 - Viewers will learn why Libby was in the asylum, and why the island has healing powers. Source: Sci Fi Wire

* 05/14/2006 - Damon Lindelof [reveals]: Libby's got this mysterious backstory, of which we've only given you the tip of the iceberg. We know she's spent some time in the mental institution with Hurley, and the idea of killing her before she had an opportunity to explain how she got there... we have a master plan for how we're going to tell that story, but it's all posthumous. You'll start to learn Libby's moves through flashbacks over the course of the next season. So we're not done with Cynthia, but Libby is dead. Source: The Ausiello Report

* 05/03/2006 - The story of the wrecked research vessel, it will be coming at some point but we can't guarantee it'll be in Season 3. Source: Ask Ausiello @ TV Guide
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heart of the matter
Posted:Jan 20, 2009 7:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2009 8:21 am
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Don Henley

Heart of the matter

I got the call today, I didnt wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old, true friend of ours was talkin on the phone
She said youd found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside loves open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?
Im learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, Im learning again
Ive been tryin to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think its about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you dont love me anymore
These times are so uncertain
Theres a yearning undefined
And people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age?
The trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
Theyre the very things - we kill I guess
Pride and competition
Cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us
You know it doesnt keep me warm
Im learning to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
And the more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought Id figured out
I have to learn again
Ive been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think its about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you dont love me anymore
There are people in your life whove come and gone
They let you down you know they hurt your pride
You better put it all behind you baby; life goes on
You keep carryin that anger; itll eat you up inside, baby
Ive been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thought seem to scatter
But I think its about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you dont love me
Ive been tryin to get down
To the heart of the matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So Im thinkin about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you dont love me
Forgiveness
Forgiveness - baby
Forgiveness
Forgiveness
Forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, you dont love me anymore
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So next time you get ready to indulge in a little dirty talk, remember the effect it will have
Posted:Jan 9, 2009 5:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2009 6:15 am
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I really miss talking dirty . I think the difference between great sex and good sex is what is said. Just my opinion. When ever I start a new relationship I always ask what are three things a man should never say in the heat of passion and what are three things a man should never do. Trust me there is a range of what you women want to hear.

I would say most of my life I was a quite lover. Don't get me wrong I would say sweet nothings and I can get pretty graphic when you are going done on me. But after that I am pretty quiet except for my occasional whistle blowing when I cum and when you are touching the right spot (whistle blowing will be another blog).

But four years ago I started to appreciate good dirty talk and my relationship with a certain redhead in Metro Atlanta took it to the next level. Now I crave that communications but I am little stuck on how to connect to women's nasty thoughts. So I found this article and thought I would share it with you all. So I am asking the ladies of the ThreeSomeFinder.com community to help a brother out with talking dirty. Let me know what works for you and what you like to say in bed that would shock your Mama.

How To Talk Dirty

Many people are asked or ask their partners to, talk dirty. But how do you actually go about talking dirty, what do you say and how do you say it? This is one of those questions where the 'How' part actually covers so many unspoken queries - Why, What, When, Where?

When someone asks if you know how to talk dirty - these different thoughts will flit through the brain faster than you can say "dusty windowsill!"

How to talk dirty is actually very easy - it's not something that takes huge amounts of experience nor is it something that you have to be perfect at to impress, arouse or be successful in.

When you are asked to talk dirty - or indeed when you feel the urge to talk dirty yourself - you are following a simple human urge.

In order for you to know how to talk dirty, you need to understand exactly where the request is coming from (what part of the sub-conscious drives it) and what is the sensation it causes to the recipient.

After all, it's the pleasure that the recipient gets from hearing you talk dirty that determines how successful they feel you are at it and how much it effects them. This in turn, naturally determines how much pleasure returns your way!

For a woman, hearing and speaking dirty talk can fit into one major motivation - the desire and pleasure gleaned from doing something that society / parents / friends consider as naughty. For some unknown reason, a girl being able to talk dirty is really appreciated by her lover yet strikes chords of dismay and amazement in others that is way out of proportion to the act committed. Whether it is a puritanical view of life or just one that allows small thinking, a woman being seen or heard to enjoy sex is still awkward for some and a no no for others.

But it is a good thing. A very good thing.

For a woman to hear all manner of things that her lover wishes to do to her or have her do to him, usually in very graphic detail, helps to push back the boundaries of not only imagination and sensation but also increases her confidence in her partner and their relationship. For many women the first couple of sessions involving dirty talk can be a revelation and an amazing discovery as she feels exactly how much effect such talk can have on her.

After all, hearing what a partner wants to do to you is a sharing of inner trust and self, something it is increasingly difficult to do in less than good relationships.

So talking dirty touches a couple of base levels for a woman - those targeted towards trust and personal boundaries.

For a man - well, they get something different but still just as incredibly arousing.

A man 'sees' things in his mind's eye much clearer and easier than a woman does. As a partner details what they want to do to him, describing how they will touch him or what they will do to what part of him exactly - an image forms in his mind, he can actually see a hand touching here or a mouth lightly kissing there and it plays as a mental film for him.

Add to this the fact that he hears your voice describing to him what is going to happen and you are targeting the major senses all at once. Sight, sound and touch. (Taste comes later maybe?) This will give a sensory overload that seriously heightens his pleasure.

So next time you get ready to indulge in a little dirty talk, remember the effect it will have on your partner, remember how it will come across to them and adapt what you say and how you say it accordingly. You'll be ever so glad you did - and so will they.

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Hot Couples Swingers Party get busted in a sting operation on Dec 3 ,2008 in Windsor CT
Posted:Dec 14, 2008 7:53 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2008 5:19 am
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3 men arrested on obscenity-related charges following investigation into swingers' event at WL hotel

By Laura F. Alix
Journal Inquirer
Published: Wednesday, December 10, 2008 11:09 AM EST

WINDSOR LOCKS – Three men are facing obscenity-related charges in connection with holding “swingers’ events” at the Beverly Hills Suites on South Center Street, where some people engaged in sex acts in the hotel’s bar, police said.

Arrested were Nicholas Maulucci, 40, of Simsbury, who police say was the organizer and promoter of the swingers’ events; Sharok Jacobi, 46, of Great Neck, N.Y., the owner and manager of the Beverly Hills Suites; and Brian True, 42, of Granby, the permittee of the hotel’s bar, Club 91, police said.

Maulucci, who was arrested Dec. 3, was charged with obscenity and public indecency. Jacobi and True were charged in mid-November with accessory to both obscenity and public indecency.

Maulucci, Jacobi, and True were released after each posted a $25,000 bond. Maulucci is due back in Enfield Superior Court on Dec. 16, Jacobi is to return on Dec. 18, and True was to appear in court today.

An undercover investigation last month, led by town police and agents from the state Department of Consumer Protection’s Liquor Control Division, resulted in the arrests and the finding of liquor-law violations against the hotel’s bar, known as Club 91, and its permittee, according to an arrest affidavit filed in Enfield court.

The Liquor Control Division’s investigation into the Beverly Hills Suites is still active, Director John Suchy said Tuesday. The division issues and oversees state liquor permits.

Suchy would not provide any other details related to the investigation, but an arrest affidavit said liquor-law violations found at the hotel’s Club 91 included smoking inside a public building, nudity, sex acts, not serving food, and improper use of a service bar. The affidavit said that such violations and activities are not allowed to take place in any public portion of the hotel.

According to the affidavit, police had received information that swingers’ groups had been renting out the Beverly Hills Suites on weekends for the past several months.

The hotel ownership and permittee of its bar, Club 91, allowed the groups to collect admission fees and to close the doors of the bar to the public, when they chose to do so, the affidavit said.

A Liquor Control Division agent also received e-mails from a tipster that contained photographs of women engaged in sex acts, and according to the sender of the e-mails, the photos were taken in Club 91 and the hotel lobby, the affidavit stated.

On Nov. 8, town police and agents from the Liquor Control Division conducted an undercover investigation into the swingers’ events being held at the hotel, the affidavit said.

Two agents had to sign up for that particular night’s swingers’ event in advance online, using fictitious names, and then paid $40 to the group’s organizer, later identified as Maulucci, the affidavit said.

While in the hotel’s bar, police observed people engaging in sex acts in the bar area and observed a photographer taking pictures of those people, the affidavit said. Near the photographer’s equipment was a chair with the word, “X-rated,” on it, the affidavit said.

The area the photographer had set up to take the photos was similar to the area depicted in the photos sent by the tipster to the Liquor Control Division agent, who had forwarded them to police, the affidavit stated.

Police seized the photographer’s camera and laptop computer, the affidavit said.

Police said in the affidavit that the photographer had been taking photos of partially clothed people engaged in real and simulated sex acts that could be observed by other patrons in the bar.

About 60 to 70 people were in Club 91, and the hotel and bar were open to the public when the police and liquor control agents showed up to investigate, the affidavit said.

While at the hotel that evening, police interviewed True and Maulucci, both of whom told police that Maulucci, the organizer of the event, had entered into a contract with Jacobi, the hotel’s owner, that allowed Maulucci to hold swingers’ parties at the hotel, the affidavit stated.

Three days later, Maulucci contacted police and said he had spoken with Jacobi about the incident, the affidavit said. Maulucci said Jacobi told him he “just wanted this to go away” and that he would pay to “have this go away,” the affidavit said.

Maulucci provided police with a copy of the contract he had signed with the hotel, dated March 21 of this year, though he told police he had first signed such a contract two years ago, the affidavit stated. The contract also noted that Maulucci would pay $500 per swingers’ event, the document said.

While police were investigating the matter on Nov. 8, an older woman came into the hotel to ask about renting a room, the affidavit stated. She asked what was going on with the police and the swingers moving through the lobby, and decided not to rent a room after all, the affidavit said.

Police Chief John Suchocki said Tuesday that the investigation into the swingers’ events that were held at Beverly Hills Suites is ongoing and he could not say whether police expect to make more arrests.

As to the frequency of incidents of this nature in town, Suchocki said, “This is the first that I know of this type of arrest.”

According to the affidavit, True and the Beverly Hills Suites were cited for several violations of the state liquor laws on the night police investigated.

The liquor permit held by Beverly Hills Suites does not allow for any of those violations or activities to take place in any public portion of the hotel, the affidavit stated.

According to its Web site, the Beverly Hills Suites boasts 170 rooms and also states, “Guests can enjoy the hotel’s Club 91, which is a high-energy nightclub that promises you a night filled with fun and memories.”

A woman who answered the phone at the hotel Tuesday afternoon said the rate for a one-night stay is $89.

The Beverly Hills Suites, formerly known as the Bradley Plaza Hotel, was purchased for $2.65 million in June of 2004.

The hotel has been plagued with financial problems in the past, and a previous owner, Nareem W. Butt, owed almost $3 million to creditors and owed the town more than $260,000 in back taxes and sewer charges.
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Her very dextrous tongue began exploring my upper body,
Posted:Dec 8, 2008 11:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2008 5:21 am
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I slowly awakened to the soft white light of a winter's morning.Glancing at the thermometer across the room, I knew I was not going to enjoy getting out of this warm bed . Besides, I thought to myself, why get up? I have all I need right here...She groaned and shifted her head on my chest. Under the thick comforter and the thin sheet, her leg moved, reminding me that beneath the sheet, we were both skin to skin. Another part of me took this reminder to heart, and she awoke fully at my caress.

Looking into her eyes, I saw love returned, and an impish
smile crossed her face. The friction from her leg delicately rubbimg me heightened my arousal, and I knew that _someone_ wasn't too tired from last night...I closed my eyes, and gave myself into the feelings. Her lips brushed under my ear, and along my jawbone before sliding down my already-arched neck.A smile crept across my face when I heard her whisper "Happy New Year" and felt her nip at my nipples.

Her very dextrous tongue began exploring my upper body,
finding the places that make me tingle, while her hands roamed around gently touching every part of me. Then, with a long lick (reminding me of a ski jump, for some insane reason), she surprised me by swallowing me whole. The warmth that had been centered on that area of my body shot up, and I was straining not to release too soon. As she always does, she stopped just too early and sat on my lap, slowly taking me inside her. The combination of the cold air crossing my chest, and the warmness on my hips was too much to bear, so I started to push against her thrusts...She stopped, and a whimper half-crossed my lips.

Slowly, she leaned forward, pulled the blanket up, and kissed my lips. My arms moved automatically around her and held her. Swiftly, I rolled her over, and began my own celebration...
Her hair framed her face beautifully, and with two fingers I
drew closed her eyes. My fingers lightly danced around her classic features, and slowly moved downward. Her neck was the next focus of my attention, and the reaction received from nibbling made me smile.

A famous author not known for his erotic fiction but his
horror once said that the female body looked best on its back. Gazing at her, I must say that I agree. The chill in the air and my actions had caused her nipples to become erect, and her breasts became the next focus in my activities. Teasing along the side and underneath, slowly moving towards the center, I gently teased her with my tongue.

After about fifteen minutes of breast envy, I moved to her midriff, where a soft touch and a vagrant feather from the comforter caused a bit of twitching and another angelic smile.
Finally, I threw the comforter off of her legs onto the floor.
She began to protest, but that was quieted when I started to firmly massage her feet. Heinlein may have fucked everything else up, I thought, but he guessed right here. As every school knows, the feet are connected to the calves, and the calves to the thighs...Knowing the sensitivity of her thighs, I stoped rubbing and began caressing again, marveling at their shape and form. Growing ever closer to her sweet-smelling crotch, I begin to flick her skin with my tongue. I move my hands and begin placing soft kisses on her upper thigh until I reach my destination. By now, she is well lubricated and aroused, and a thin sheen of sweat gleams on her skin.

I gently touch her mound with my fingertips, and move downward,
spreading her lips so as to provide access to her clit. My tongue
reaches forward, and for one moment she jumps as if she were being
shocked. Again I touch, and again she jumps. I place two fingers
inside her, and 'let my fingers do the walking" on her special spot,and begin massaging her clit with my tongue in earnest. With her thighs clamped around my head, I continued to pleasure her until I heard her gasp "Now please!"Never one to disobey a lady in distress, I quickly mounted her, and slid into heaven. I held her tightly in a hug, embracing her everywhere and whispered into her ear "I love you." She responded by squeezing inside, and we began to move rhythmically.


I brought her over once quickly, and slowed down some, my
arousal notwithstanding. Still as hard as before, I brought her back to her peak and held her there, enjoying the aginizing pleasure in her face. Finally, it was too much for me, and I pushed harder and harder into her. With my ears filled with her pleasure, I exploded with her,and held her while the tremors resonated within us.


With suddenly much less motivation to move, I pick up the
discarded comforter, and cover us with it. She shifted to a more
comfortable position and closed her eyes again, silently thanking me for everything. I looked at the ceiling, sighed, and tried to fall back asleep...rything. I looked at the ceiling, sighed, and tried to fall back asleep...
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You want a situation where someone else takes control of things, takes control of your pleasure.
Posted:Nov 19, 2008 8:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2008 10:36 am
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You are stressed. You have plenty on your mind. You want a situation where someone else takes control of things, takes control of your pleasure. You want to be teased, to be spanked, to be toyed with a little, but not without the intent of making you come, and hopefully more than once. You clearly want the focus on you, although not exclusively I'd assume. All of this would need to be predicated on a least some mutual attraction and flirtation. Some good old fashioned flirting with the overtones of the dirty ideas we both have in mind might lead to a hell of a lot of sexual tension, and that ain't a bad thing.

I've got a bit of a general vision in my mind of things leading into a soft discussion of how bad you have been and ending up with you bent over, possibly a skirt pushed up, in a position to be idly spanked, teased, touched, or a bit of all three at once. There are a whole lot of way to really tease someone when they are on their hands and knees, maybe with their hands cuffed together, ass pointing up in the air. In that kind of position, it is just as easy to spank, as it is to gently push a small vibrating object up to someone's clit, if only for a second to see what kind of reaction it gets.

Sure, there's more detail to be shared, but let's not get all porno-like until we get the idea that we are both on the same page. I'm all for other ideas as well. I find all things in the bedroom are better enjoyed and explored when both people are getting pleasure out of things, not one person getting pushed into something they are not about. I'm very non pressure about this kind of stuff, I mean, I'm getting to spank and tease a cute girl, who am I to complain? While I most certainly find the idea of playing a little dominant and submissive roles very hot, I'm not "into a lifestyle" and hang out at fetish clubs and the such. I'm just a guy with a job and a life who has a slightly kinky side.

Along the lines of mutually being ok with things. I only play safely, and wouldn't dream of getting into anything without a face to face meeting to be sure that neither of us is nuts or fallen from the ugly tree. Besides, how else are you going to build a bit of flirtation and sexual tension without a meeting first?
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they don
Posted:Nov 13, 2008 5:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2008 7:54 am
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One of the most popular myths that you hear about black men is, they don’t eat pussy, aka give head/oral. Let me start out by saying it’s a myth. In the true sense of the word myth, it’s false. It’s a rumor, a invented concept or story. I’ve always laughed when I heard people talk about this. There are 2 types of black men when it comes to oral sex. First there are those who do it, love it and admit it. Second there are those who do it and lie about it. Can you imagine that? They lie about doing it? Why would a brotha not give you head? Well I’ve got a few reasons why black men would either lie about it or not give it to you.

First of all oral sex is one of the most intimate sexual experiences you can share with your partner. To give a woman oral sex allows you to experience her in a up and close fashion. There’s nothing better than feeling her body shake and quiver with her legs tightly wrapped around your neck. Many men enjoy giving women that special lip service that will send her orbiting the earth on a different axis. But let the truth be told some men don’t know what they are doing. They might be too rough, too fast, or just totally miss the entire sweet spot. Or as one friend called a guy, ‘Mr Slurpee’, because he seem to lose control of his saliva. haha. Let’s just say she wasn’t thrilled with his performance. If their previous partner was dissatisfied by their oral skills, they might be a bit shy about exploring with you. I will admit that I have had women who didn’t know how to lick the wrapper. What did I do? I just told them that I wasn’t into it. Of course, the believed me.

Another reason why black men won’t give you head is they hyper sensitive about being clean. There is the idea of putting his mouth on a woman is not healthy. This is a very common thing in some foreign cultures. I have a close friend that is married to a Middle Eastern man that believes that it’s unclean to eat pussy. This is a common belief in their faith and their community.

I shouldn’t have to mention this, but I know there are some who don’t take the extra steps. Hygiene is a must. Ladies need to make sure they look and smell clean. It goes with out saying that I like my woman fresh and clean. That means proper cleansing and grooming. Don’t be afraid to take a shower before you come to bed. Let him know that you’re prepared for what’s next. Nothing says lick me like a freshly bathed body. Personally, I don’t like body hair. Why? I don’t want to be the brotha that’s trying to get the renegade hair off my tongue in the middle of good sex. How do I know about that? It’s happened once, and I swore I’d never be coughing up hair again. So my advice is shave it off. Keep it smooth. The sight of smooth skin is hard for a brotha to resist. He will naturally lean over to kiss it and more.

Of course, there is the man who doesn’t go down on you because he’s just selfish. Yes, he’s not there to please you. He’s only looking out for himself. He’s the type of brotha that will lay back and allow you to please him until you get a mild case of lock jaw. When you are finished he will flip you over and give you the ‘ugly girl’ treatment. He will tell you that doggie style is his favorite position. Within a few minutes he’s breathing heavy and done for the night.

So if you’re dating a brotha that doesn’t lick you like a bowl of jello pudding, you might want to check this list to see what the problem is.

Post your comments, I’d like to hear your thoughts.
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You see, we are honest about what we want, but we are not honest in how we are getting it
Posted:Oct 12, 2008 1:15 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2009 7:16 pm
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Okay you are at work on Monday morning where some co workers are talking about the presidential debate around the water cooler, some are talking about the Pats and some are talking about their shitty lawn. Now the conversation turns to you about your weekend. What do you say; It could be that 24 hours ago you were at swinger’s party walking around house full of people half dressed having the time of your life, or you met someone off ThreeSomeFinder.com and had the kind of sex that is illegal in 48 states (still checking on Hawaii and Alaska) or you just convinced your spouse or date into threesome. What do you say to your co worker ?

I know we all preach honesty on this site in what we are looking for in a relationship or in a evening. What do we say to our friends, family and yes co workers with a straight face about our adult adventures. I don’t know about you but I have a few cover stories that I keep on using. I mean I can’t tell you how many trips I have gone on to visit old friends as a cover story.

You see, we are honest about what we want, but we are not honest in how we are getting it. This does not make us bad people it just make our lives look incredibly boring to our friends , family and co workers. The truth is we are living on the edge because we like the view. Now I am going to share with you my thoughts on the kind of swingers I think that are out there and you can tell me what your best cover story is to your friends and family. Since I am single guy with no what do you couples tell the babysitter? Keep in touch

Types


HEAD GAMERS: They may call themselves swingers but in truth, they aren't swingers. They thinking about swinging and looking for swingers partner. They will exchange emails and pictures maybe go to the first meeting, but if the things get to serious, than they'll back off. Few days or weeks later they start again. They are just waste of time.

CAUTIOUS SWINGERS: They are sometimes, but not always first timer or "newbie." They realize this is an important step in a relationship, and want to take their time. Others must respect their limits and pace. While many females are rather reluctant to get involved in swinging, once they do, they generally accept initial experiences more successfully than males. Women are usually either enthusiastic converts or completely turned off by the experience. Generally, cautious swingers are relatively selective when they first become involved. Curious swingers may test the lifestyle several times over many years before trying the swinging lifestyle.

RECREATIONAL SWINGERS: Recreational swingers swing as a social activity. Like others play cards or baseball. They want to develop friendships as well as swinging relationships. Swinging is more than sex to them. Recreational swingers may drop in and out of swinging for short or long periods of time. Swinging is not a full part of their lifestyle.

SALVAGE SWINGERS: Salvage swingers participate in swinging to relieve boredom with marital sex. For them swinging is a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage, however they do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.

PREDATOR SWINGERS: Predator swingers can be male or female, single or couple and are typically found preying on the first timer swingers. In many cases this type of swinger is not well liked or even swing amongst their peers. Since first timer swingers are relatively uninformed, they are perfect for the predator. Predators are the easiest swinger to spot at any party, they will enter rooms time and time again without being invited or bringing a mate, they will continue to play when told NO, they will join a large group without being seen or invited. Predator swingers will lie in their ads and face to face if they feel they can get what they want. Predators can be very pushy or aggressive and sometimes make you feel uncomfortable to talk with. Some predators are smooth talkers. There are not too many out there and most swingers community are very efficient at keeping them in line or OUT! All swingers should fully respect your feelings and right to say NO! No one will tell you that they are a predator, but you should be able to recognize the type.

SINGLE SPOUSE SWINGERS: They believe in a double standard, one partner is more involved than the other in the lifestyle. Many single spouse swingers have conflicts between each other about actually swinging. They may call themselves swingers but in truth, one partner finds the lifestyle improper or disgusting while the other partner wants to be a part of the swinging lifestyle. Sometimes, the wife/husband will be having sexual relations with other partners, because the female/male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another partner previously. Also in some cases couples getting together and only one spouse participating, because the others do not feel comfortable. They are only there to please their spouse and not themselves. Most one sided swingers never actually swing or one partner may take liberties on their own.

HARD CORE SWINGERS: Hard Core Swingers have XXX in their mind and get down to the basics of sex with other couples as soon as possible. Many hard core swingers will play and have sexual intercourse with one or many partners. Hardcore don't need to be friends, and may not even need to know each other names. They believe swinging is just pure sex, and will generally only meet with other swingers to have sex only

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You
Posted:Oct 7, 2008 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2008 3:15 pm
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Men have undoubtedly been dating older women for decades, but only in the last several years has there been a more public display of this type of cross generational affection. But what is it that older women find attractive in younger men, and vice versa? Find that out and more in this ultimate guide to pursuing and dating cougars.

There are definitely some things you should consider before going after a cougar, from knowing how to keep older women interested and engaged to bracing yourself for disapproving friends and family.

Know your goals: Do you want a fling or a serious relationship that will leave you set for life financially? Narrowing down your goals will help you zero in on the right kind of cougar.

Do your research: The most sought after cougars are smart and sophisticated, so make sure you have enough to talk about.
Know how to please a woman: Older women who are dating younger men expect a lot of attention and enthusiasm in the sack, so don’t disappoint.

Be ready to be available: Don’t waste your time if you’re going to play hard to get. You’re the boy toy in this scenario, so be ready to go out on dates.

Shower compliments on her whenever appropriate: Make your cougar feel attractive and young again by showing her off to friends and showering her with compliments.

It’s not going to be all about you: Sure, you’re there to make her feel special and sexy in front of her friends, but the whole game is more about fulfilling her needs than yours.


Use a condom: If your cougar is past menopause, you still need to use a condom to protect against STDs.
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The best way to alieviate stress is to do something nice for someone
Posted:Sep 4, 2008 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2008 9:41 am
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There is a plan for each and every one of us. We are not randomly put here in this place at this time to just exist. We have many purposes for being here. We have much to experience and an unlimited potential to grow and expand.

Sometimes it may feel like we are just existing, just going through the motions, doing what we need to do, have to do, and ignoring the things we want to do. Even at those times, there is a divine plan at work in our lives. Knowing this, we can relax and give up feeling the need to be in control.

The best way to alieviate stress is to do something nice for someone. Pay an unexpected compliment, thank someone for their efforts, give something away. Your kind words or a hug can make such a difference in someone’s life. Our giving is reciprocal, and to the degree that it affects another, it affects us too.

As you go through your day, be aware of divine timing. Acknowledge it. Don’t discount it as just a coincidence. Let it confirm for you that all things happen in their own time and in their own way, and many times better than we could have ever imagined.
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Seduce her mind If you want to make sure that her body surrenders
Posted:Aug 30, 2008 8:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2008 7:21 am
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Now we all know that every woman is different and there is no surefire method to guarantee the female orgasm. But there are ways to increase her chances of doing so and your chances of bringing her there.

There is one thing that all women can definitely agree on when it comes to the female orgasm, however. If you can seduce their brains, chances are, their bodies will follow. And because an orgasmic woman is a happy woman, if you keep her sexually satisfied, she'll want more sex, which, in turn, will garner you more orgasms.

So are you ready to make her splash?

Seduce her mind
If you want to make sure that her body surrenders, you must first have sex with her brain.

Talk about sexual plans
It's okay to get her mind going with visions about what you're going to do or what you imagine doing to her. Talking about sex is the first step in enriching your sex life.

Reveal your fantasies
In the spirit of talking about sex, you need to be open about your fantasies, within reason, of course. Tell her about the one in which she's stripping in a gentleman's club, for example, and you have no idea who she is, but she approaches you and begins silently seducing you with a dance in front of hundreds of men. In turn, you can ask her deep, probing questions and get her to reveal all the crazy things she imagines when her brain is wandering into the realm of female orgasm.

Reminisce about past sexual experiences
If you can recall a time when you made her waters fall, talk about it. By doing so, you will stir those feelings she experienced when she was reaching her peak.

Make her feel sexy
From getting her to put on lingerie to looking at her as though she was the hottest woman on Earth, making her feel sexy will make her feel sexual.
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7 ways interviewing for a job is like dating
Posted:Aug 27, 2008 4:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 4:51 am
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Since I moved back to the North East from Atlanta, I have been on a string of job interviews and dates. I have come to the conclusion that both dating and interviewing for a job have a lot in common. Think about some great job interviews you have had and what kind of job you got out of it. Do the same with dating. So this is what I found that the two have in common

7 ways interviewing is like dating


1. Desperation is not attractive. When you're seeking a job, you're not asking someone to do a favor for you; you're offering the company something they want in exchange for getting something you want.

2. be choosy and deliberative and don't just take the first thing that comes along.

3. Make your interest personal, not generic. Ask questions and express a genuine interest. Your interviewer wants to feel you want this job, not a job.

4. Use flattery. I'll admit it, when a candidate says complimentary things about the company and the interview process, I like it. I had a candidate recently tell me that the interview process itself made him more interested in working for us, because it was rigorous enough that he could tell we really cared about getting the right fit. Is there anything more attractive than someone who values the things about us that we value about ourselves? I swooned a little bit.

5. Remember to ask if you like them, not just if they like you. Sometimes people get so hung up on getting the job offer (or the next date) that they forget to assess whether it's even compatible with what they want.

6. Don't badmouth your exes. If a candidate complains about a former boss, I'll wonder if she is the problem.

7. Keep your ego in check. Be able to talk about your weaknesses in a way that shows self-awareness and humility

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In fact, we just don't give a damn! Stay with us in the moment and let's have fun together.
Posted:Aug 25, 2008 8:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2008 1:40 pm
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Are you a good lover? Sure, you say you are, but if I asked 3 of your ex's, what would they say? I'll bet they may have a different opinion. I've had many women tell me that they were really incredible only to find out later that they were duds. If you'd like to be just as good (bad) as these women, here are your keys:

1) Taking ex-lover's opinions
Any guy that wants to play sheet-hockey with you is going to tell you how great you are. I'm sorry, but we guys lie to you not to hurt you, but to prevent you from being an even worse - or scarce - lover. We have enough to worry about with just getting good sex to add to it.

Here's a bottom line you should adopt: don't use the salesman's opinion to judge the quality of the product. Of course we're going to tell you that you're awesome! We're just glad we got some sex! Consider too that because so many women are "sex-challenged", many men have never been with a good lover in the first place.

2) Assuming you're good in bed
Every woman I know thinks she's a great kisser and at least decent in bed. In fact in my experience women who tell you they are great kisser really suck at it! Here is a few hints to make you better kisser

A) Mouthwash. Trust me funky breath is a buzz kill on for-play.

Gentle kissing goes a long way. I already had my tonsil removed when I was ten. So I hate it when my date is trying to suck my tongue out of my head.

C)No biting or hickies we all live professional lives, let not leave any marks that are hard to explain to our co workers on monday morning.

Assuming that you're already skilled can actually prevent you from gaining the skills you really should have. Being "confident, but curious" will take you to that glorious 2nd date quickly.

3) Not knowing your own sexuality
Many, many women don't focus on their own sexuality and assume that a man will come along to teach them everything they should know. Don't believe it. It is YOUR job to learn about your own sexuality so that you bring this to the table in a relationship. After all, if you don't understand your own sexuality -" what works for you, what doesn't and what else you want to explore - how are you ever going to communicate this to your lover?

Some men may stay in a relationship with a lousy lover, but we constantly think about how it'd be with someone else. If you think that takes the pressure off of you fine, but don't be surprised when your lover decides he want to taste a little of that other fruit.

So, you're probably asking exactly how to learn about your own sexuality. The answer is simple: masturbation. This is the time you get to safely explore your own fantasies in private. Your mind is a creative, healing spring of energy and taking a little time for yourself is not only fun, it's the key to really understanding your own needs - and getting comfortable with them! This can be a powerful source growth if you use it that way.

4) A lack of experience
If you're saving yourself for to be the right freak or for some knight in shining armor, just consider what you're going to have to give when it or he finally arrives. I can't tell you how many women just assume that everything will be incredible - and how many relationships break up because it's not.

Not many men these days want woman who is not a little freaky. For those of us with some experience, we realize that this is just too much work! I don't want to have to spend the next 5 Months helping a woman just get in touch with her own sexual side - she should bring this to the relationship in the first place!

You've no doubt heard that sex "isn't the most important part of a relationship?" and while that may be true, it's in the top 3! Why would you spend so much of your time working on becoming the woman of your man's dreams, only to fail where it's most important to him?

I'm not saying that you should go out and bang every guy you meet, but you should see every sexual relationship you are in as a chance to grow your own skills for that guy that finally does sweep you off your feet. Doesn't he deserve this from you? (Answer: yes, he does!)

5) Reading books and articles written by women about what men want in bed
If I want to learn about car maintenance, I don't usually go to a guy that sells camels and ask. I'll go right to the mechanic. Women spend countless hours reading articles and books written by other women about how to satisfy men sexually. The trouble with this is that many of these women are just as inexperienced! Many men look at these articles too and most of us just roll our eyes.

6) Not communicating
If I or any man asks you what you like in bed, NEVER give the answer, "Oh, I like just about everything!" It's a cop-out and we know it. More important if you DO give an answer like this, don?t be surprised if you come home one day and find your cousin, a , a trampoline and a clown in your living room ready for action.

Being with someone sexually is an opportunity to get your needs met - and to explore new ones. You can only do this by communicating honestly, openly and without embarrassment.

7) Not asking
Wouldn't you love to hear your partner ask you, "Honey, is there anything you really want that you haven't told me?" Guys do too! Very few of us are the insecure jackasses some make us out to be. If we know you want something, we'll almost always find a way to give it to you.

Complaining
When you ask for something and get it - even if it?s not exactly right - don't complain. There are far better ways to improve things! That especially means right in the middle of sex.

Recommendations are taken far better than simply complaining about something. If you tell us what you want, we may still not exactly understand it from your perspective. Women are rather more complicated than men in this department. As I've already said, if we know you want something, we'll almost always try to give it to you. If it's not exactly what or how you like it, help us to understand it. You'll be the benefactor!

On the other hand, if you simply complain, get used to the idea that you're not going to get what you want - and it'll be your own fault.

9) Lack of enthusiasm
If you think holding back is the way to get us to be more interested in you, let me set you straight on this: it won't work. We'll simply find someone that won't hold back and leave you wondering what happened.

Your sexual enthusiasm also communicates your interest in us. That doesn't mean you have to bounce off the walls, but at least be interested in sex and want to grow with us. We'll return the favor in ways you can't imagine.

10) Being self-conscious
I know, I know, you're worried about the lighting, mood and every other little issue:

"Does my hair look good?"

"Am I making enough noise?"

"Am I making too much noise?"

"Does this pillow make my ass look big?"

Honey, you look great - really. We aren't concerned with all of this detail. We are focused on the sex itself - with you; not whether or not you have cellulite. In fact, we just don't give a damn! Stay with us in the moment and let's have fun together. This isn't an anatomy lesson and you're not competing with the girls in the magazine under our bed - really!
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