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Posted:Oct 5, 2007 5:59 am
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The main source for the information presented below is the article The Female Prostate: History, Functional Morphology and Sexology Implications. By Zaviacic M., Zaviacic T. Ablin R.J., Breza J., Holoman K.
The Female Prostate
During early fetal development both male and female fetuses start out being physically female. This does not change until a male fetus begins to produce its own hormones around the eighth week of gestation. Only then does the physical development of the male and female bodies diverge, and then less than many may presume. This necessitates that female fetuses initially have structures that could develop into either "male" or "female" reproductive and sexual organs. This means the tissue that develops into the male prostate gland, the urogenital sinus, must also be present in women. This results in woman having a prostate gland too.
The Importance of Clitoral Stimulation!
The clitoris probably holds the key to female ejaculation for most women. If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused her prostate may not fill with increased amounts of fluid. If her prostate is not swollen she may not have a G-Spot. If her clitoris is not stimulated she is less likely to experience orgasm and the rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles that expel and release the ejaculate. So quite simply before you can go exploring for the G-Spot you must master clitoral stimulation beforehand. There are women who are orgasmic and ejaculate when their G-Spot or vagina alone is stimulated but the majority need direct clitoral stimulation if they are to experience orgasm.
What Do You Stimulate the Female Prostate With?
Now that you know the location of the female prostate you will want to know how to stimulate it. The most versatile tools to use are your fingers. They are firm but flexible and have feeling and provide feedback. For solo explorers fingers have their limitations, as they may not be long enough and can tire relatively quickly. Plus, if one hand is stimulating your clitoris it limits access to your vagina with your other hand. So in addition to fingers, dildos and/or vibrators are usually required for finding and stimulating the G-Spot. (I will refer to both vibrators and dildos as dildos for the sake of convenience) Notice I used the plural 'dildos' not the singular 'dildo', as there is a chance you may have to try several different dildos to find the best one for you.
Choosing a Dildo
How do you pick out a dildo for G-Spot stimulation? Trial and error. The dildos that do have a good success rate are those that are curved near the tip, called G-Spot stimulators, and penis shaped dildos with a prominent ridge at the junction of the glans and shaft. Many women find hard plastic or glass dildos work best. Others find that makeshift dildos work great; such things as cucumbers, brush handles, mirror handles, etc. Some prefer a slim dildo that they direct at a specific area within their vagina but others prefer their vagina to be filled and stretched to the maximum by a large dildo. If you are going to buy a dildo to use for G-Spot stimulation be prepared to buy and try a couple different styles. Any woman who is seriously considering using dildos needs to be aware that she will most likely have a collection of favorites versus one special one. As a woman's mood and needs change so will her dildo needs. While women often start out with one many soon find they have a drawer full of them. Some women prize their collections.
To Pee or Not to Pee
Since the physical act of female urination is so similar to female ejaculation many women have found erotic enjoyment in urinating during sex, solo and with a partner. Women seeking to learn to ejaculate may find themselves squirting liquid from their bladder rather ejaculating fluid from their prostate. This is because both urination and ejaculation require a woman to be able to surrender control and relax during orgasm. If you keep your bladder sphincter closed and tighten your pelvic muscles you cannot release liquid from your bladder or ejaculate. Women seeking to ejaculate are advised to push out when the urge to urinate or ejaculate comes over them at the point of orgasm. Doing this gives your body permission to ejaculate, but it also gives your body permission to release fluid from your bladder. You have no control over which occurs. You will just be aware of the intense physical sensations that occur. The sensations of both may be pleasant and indistinguishable. Hence learning to release liquid from your bladder at the point of orgasm may help a woman learn to ejaculate.
Learning to release liquid from your bladder at the point of orgasm is likely to be easier when alone than when a partner is present. You will probably find it easier to relax, and you wont be as concerned about the resulting wetness. Doing this in the bathtub has some advantages. First you do not have to worry about the wetness, second soaking in warm water will help relax you, and third cleanup is a snap. Drink a couple glasses of water a short while before starting; allow your bladder to fill. It does not need to feel full, but you do not want it to be empty either. Lie back in the tub, or lay on several towels on your bed. Start to masturbate. Caress your clitoris. Slipping your fingers or a dildo into your vagina may feel nice. You do not need to necessarily move them back and forth inside your vagina only provide a feeling of pressure inside your vagina. Allow the sexual buildup to occur slowly. Practice tightening and relaxing your pelvic muscles, commonly called Kegel exercises.
Think about the act of urinating, of letting go. Allowing your bladder to fill will result in you feeling the need to urinate. The closer you are to the point of orgasm the stronger the urge to empty your bladder is likely to become. Hold back on your orgasm until you feel you cannot hold the contents of your bladder a second longer. At the point of orgasm press out and relax your pelvic muscles, welcome the feeling of the liquid escaping from your bladder. The stronger the force behind the liquid, the greater the sensations are likely to be. So push and try to squirt liquid from your bladder. It takes practice to be able to let go spontaneously, since you have been conditioned to maintain strict control over your urination habits. It may also help to vocalize the release, make some noise. Intentionally crying out will help with the release. Scream "YES."
Learning to Ejaculate
Moving on to ejaculation only requires a couple slight changes in technique. Empty your bladder first; you will want to let go without a full bladder producing the pressure or urge. The urge should still develop, just not be the result of a full bladder. The urge to ejaculate may not occur without there being stimulation of your prostate or urethra. This is likely to require the use of a dildo if you are alone. As you massage your clitoris, using your fingers or a dildo stimulate your urethra by massaging the top of your vagina; using only light pressure at first. Massage the full length of your urethra, from the opening of your vagina back into your vagina a couple inches. Keep up the clitoral massage. Try different pressures and strokes. Massaging the urethral meatus may feel pleasant. Stimulating your urethra may cause you to feel the need to release liquid from your bladder and this is desired. Do not fight the urge, go with the flow, literally. Relax and breathe deeply.
If you find a spot that is highly sensitive you may want to concentrate solely on it, but you may find it is too sensitive to stimulate directly. If your G-Spot is highly sensitive you may find you are only able to tolerate its stimulation when you are very close to orgasm, when your pain threshold has increased. Keep massaging your clitoris and urethra. Continue to the point of orgasm. A slow build up with lots of teasing may help produce the greatest urge and strongest orgasm. When orgasm occurs relax your bladder and press out as if urinating. If you ejaculate you will likely feel a new and strong sensation, if not, you will still experience a strong orgasm, so nothing is lost. You may not be aware of any increased wetness until after the orgasm has subsided. Being able to ejaculate may take practice even if you are able to squirt liquid from your bladder during orgasm. It is not known whether all women can ejaculate so you just have to experiment. In any event it should be a pleasurable experience.
Stimulation by a Partner
A woman's partner can bring her to an orgasm that includes ejaculation. If a woman already knows she is capable of ejaculating she should let her partner know, not pray that it will not happen again. She should discuss the increased wetness that occurs with her partner; at least prepare them for it. Hopefully they will see your ejaculations as desirable and erotic. If they do not, reeducating them about female fluids and ejaculation may persuade them to at least accept the ejaculations as normal even if they do not like the associated wetness.
There is perhaps one big advantage to having a partner stimulate you to orgasm when you are trying to ejaculate, that is because they will not stop the stimulation unless you tell them too. If you are masturbating and you start to feel uncomfortable, out of control, you will likely stop immediately. This could prevent you from experiencing orgasm and ejaculation. With a partner you can agree beforehand that they will not stop, even if you say, "stop." (Doing this requires using a "safe word" that indicates, "Stop!" for real. This is a word you are not likely to say accidentally during sex, without thinking about it.) If you find you pull away you can ask that they hold or follow you so you cannot move away from the stimulation. Of course you should only do these things if you really trust your partner, as they need to be forceful without going to far.
How do you stimulate your partner's prostate? Your hands are excellent tools to use. The best way to stimulate the inside of their vagina, along the upper wall, is to create a hook with your index finger. Imagine you want to signal to someone standing across the room that you want them to come toward you. You turn your hand palm up and signal with your index finger by making a hook, curling it up and straightening it repeatedly. You can do the same thing with two fingers inside the vagina. Massaging the upper wall of the vagina, from the opening back inside two inches. Start out with a very light touch. Press your fingers up and toward the front, pointing toward the pubic bone, or clitoris. Use the urethral opening as a guide. Use a generous amount of lubrication even if she is dripping wet.
Start out by getting her aroused with manual and/or oral clitoral stimulation.
Continue the clitoral stimulation as you massage her prostate. Ask your partner if there is a specific spot or area that produces intense or enjoyable sensations when you massage it, her G-Spot. As you sense her getting closer to orgasm apply a firmer touch, if she enjoys it. Maintain a constant and steady rhythm. Follow through, continue the massage up through her orgasm. Then switch to a very light caressing touch as she comes down from her orgasm. If she experiences multiple orgasms her orgasms and ejaculations may become more intense, and the amount of ejaculation may increase. If she orgasms with your fingers inside her vagina her vaginal muscles may squeeze them very tightly, do not pull out but rather press in gently.
You can also stimulate your partner to ejaculation using a dildo.
This requires more verbal communication, as you cannot feel exactly what the dildo is doing. She needs to let you know what feels good, or bad. Some women may like for the tip of the dildo to be pointed at their urethra, others may prefer a full feeling. The stretching and pressure created by large dildos or an entire hand may stimulate the urethra enough to cause an ejaculation even if that is not the intent.
A woman may also ejaculate during intercourse, with a penis or a dildo in a harness. What seems to work the best are positions that result in the penis or dildo stimulating the upper wall of the vagina. Like when a woman's partner kneels between her knees when she is on her hands and knees, or when she is on top controlling the direction and force of the thrusting. Some women may ejaculate during intercourse without even trying, while others may find it a challenge. It is more likely if she already ejaculates frequently during manual massage. Practice makes perfect.
Some Health Concerns
Unfortunately, there can be some possible negative side effects associated with massaging the urethra. The urethra is highly sensitive and is easily irritated. Even normal intercourse can irritate a woman's urethra resulting in painful urination and infection. This is especially true of virgins and women with tense pelvic muscles, as they are too tight and there is too much friction between their vagina and the thrusting penis or dildo. Intentionally stimulating the urethra increases the chances of there being irritation and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation, or sex in general if you are prone to urinary tract infections. Just release a little bit of liquid from your bladder before sex if you are trying things with a full bladder. They also recommend women drink cranberry juice, or take a cranberry supplement available at health food stores, as its acidic level helps to ward off the bacteria that cause infections. If you experience irritation, painful urination, or infection, try using less pressure when massaging or stimulating the urethra. The urethra may become accustomed to the stimulation with time, but do not torture yourself or inflict multiple infections. Have fun but do not hurt yourself.
Addressing the Wetness
If you ejaculate there may be a small amount of liquid expelled or there could be a lot. If you are intentionally squirting liquid from your bladder or ejaculate repeatedly there may be a liquid everywhere. Since you usually sleep where you have sex female ejaculation can present a logistical problem. If you only ejaculate a small amount simply keeping a couple towels near the bed may be the solution. If you gush then towels may not be enough. Having a plastic cover on the mattress and extra sheets may do the trick, though changing the sheets and cleaning up afterwards may not be the way you want to relax after sex. You can buy the disposable bed pads hospitals use, as they are absorbent and have a plastic backing. They are sometimes sold with incontinence supplies at your local store too. We sell in our store reusable cotton bed pads that remove the inconvenience associated with body fluids and sex. You can try having sex in the tub or shower or having a second bed or an air mattress to have sex on. For women who ejaculate every time, regardless of whether they want too, cleanup can be bothersome at times, and does take some getting use too. Just try to keep a positive attitude and be prepared with extra towels and sheets. A supportive partner always helps.
Real or Faked?
I hate to be the barer of bad news but chances are the women seen ejaculating in mainstream adult movies are likely releasing liquid from their bladder rather than ejaculating. They fake their ejaculations just as they fake their orgasms. They are intentionally squirting liquid from their bladder to simulate orgasm and true female ejaculation, or rapidly expelling liquid they place inside their vagina. The proof of this is the shear volume and/or the white color of the liquid they expel. Enjoy mainstream ejaculation videos but keep in the back of your mind that it is all fantasy.
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I spread your legs, staring at your wet panties.
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Posted:Sep 30, 2007 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2007 6:25 am
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You open your door to find me outside. Without saying a word, I come inside and kiss you softly on the mouth. I close the door and push you back against it, kissing you deeply as I pin you back. I hold your arms above your head and press you against the door as my tounge explores your mouth. We kiss like this for a few minutes. You can feel my hard cock pressing against your hips. Our bodies press tightly together as our kissing and groping becomes more intense.
My mouth moves all over your face and neck. My hands wander over your body. I pull your shirt up over your head, and expose your warm skin. My hands caress your arms, your shoulders,
your back... I kiss you again as I touch your body.
My kisses move down your neck to your shoulders... down to your chest. My hands begin to play with your bra. I tease you a little, letting my fingers play near your nipples. I can feel them getting hard under your bra. I squeeze one, rub it between my fingers. We kiss while I continue to play with your nipples.
After a few minutes, I slip off your bra and begin sucking your tits. You feel my tounge rolling over your nipples. I move you over to the couch... As I play with you tits, my hands wander over your legs and ass. You feel a hand between your legs, moving up your thighs. I press my hand against the crotch of your pants. I rub you pussy a little while my tounge rolls over your nipple. Then I begin to unbotton your
pants.
I kiss you deeply as you pull your pants down for me. Now I spread your legs, staring at your wet panties. I play with your legs. I let my fingers slide up and down your thighs, teasing your pussy. I play with the edges of your panties. I trace the hem. I move my fingers lightly above your pussy, teasing. I rub my finger very lightly on your clit. You feel the warmth of my fingers through your panties. I press your panties against your pussy and feel your wetness.
Then I slip a finger underneath to feel your slick, wet pussy. Teasing you, I slip my finger just inside your hole. Then take my hand away and kiss you again.
dedicated to redheadinheat
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she is freed to express her natural, powerful and orgasmic nature.
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Posted:Sep 25, 2007 1:17 pm
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Tantra Massage for Women centers to an extent on the Yoni (vagina). Yoni loosely translated means "Sacred Temple". Within the Yoni is your Sacred Spot better known as the G-Spot.
The G-Spot is the Woman's emotional sex center. The Woman carries in her Sacred Spot her highest potential for pleasure and ecstasy as well as any physical and emotional traumas from her past. To achieve the highest pleasure and ecstasy, the woman needs to remove and clear any blocked and trapped energies and emotions of past trauma with tantric massage of her G-Spot. When these energies and emotions are released, she is freed to express her natural, powerful and orgasmic nature.
The goal of Tantra Massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen. The goal of Tantra Massage is to allow the receiver to enjoy the Tantra Massage and to relax into herself afterwards.
After a warm shower the Tantra Massage begins with a slow sensual body massage. This is an oil based massage. The oil is totally water dispersible, there is never any danger of staining your clothes. Added to the massage oil is pure essential oils that help heighten your sexual senses. This will relax you and help me to connect to your energy centers. Tantra Massage is never hurried and the room is quiet filled only with the sound of soft seductive music and scented candles.
I'll start by relaxing and connecting with you and synchronizing my breathing with yours.
When you are ready, I'll have you lie face down, naked,on your bed. I'll start by quieting and focusing my mind while resting my hands on your upper and lower back. You will feel the positive charged energy pass between you. Then, I'll perform a relaxing massage on the back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet.
After relaxing your back, neck, legs, buttocks and feet, I'll have you turn over. I'll then massage your arms,hands and chest, paying very special attention to your breast and nipples. I'll then massage your tummy and pelvis area just above the vulva... before gliding down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, I'll glide back up and slowly brushes over the pubic area, teasing it, this teasing process, is drawn out by brushing the inner thighs, near the vagina, very lightly touching the pubic region. At this point the erotic energy is building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to the sex centers of your body.
Lying on your back I'll ask that you spread your legs, while I sit between your legs. This position allows me full access to your Yoni and other parts of your body. We will begin with deep, relaxed breathing. It is important we both remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire Tantra Massage. I will gently remind you to start breathing again if you stop or take shallower breaths.
I will gently massage the mound and outer lips of your Yoni, spending time here and not rushing, gently squeezing the outer lips between my thumb and index finger, and sliding up and down the entire length of each lip, doing the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni. Gently stroking the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeezing it between thumb and index finger. At this point you will become highly aroused but remembering this is done as a massage and not to reach orgasm I continue to encourage you to just relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, I insert my finger into your Yoni. Very gently exploring and massaging the inside of your Yoni. Taking my time, being gentle, feeling up, down and sideways, varying the depth, speed and pressure. This is a Tantra Massage and I am nurturing and relaxing your Yoni.
Now I begin massaging your sacred spot/G-Spot. Taking time gently moving side to side, back and forth and in circles using my thumb to massage your clitoris. At this point orgasm may occur, don't fight it... keep breathing, lose yourself in it. Remember Tantra Massage is for your pleasure.
If orgasm occurs, I will gently remind you to keep breathing, as I will continue massaging. It is important to try and not give in to the urge to stop after the first orgasm. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra Massage this is called "riding the wave." Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Tantra Massage.
Ejaculation may also occur, this is perfectly normal and ok. Again try and not give in to the urge to stop. It is important to let this emotional release happen. Many women, because of past traumas will have an outpouring of emotion, again this is also normal and one of the goals of Tantra Massage.
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because it would make you a total slut, yet you are still extremely aroused and cuming so hard
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Posted:Jun 12, 2007 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2007 8:17 pm
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Do you want me to take your hand, lead you to my bed where you are then played with for hours to explore you and your desires in a number of different ways. Making you do things you only dream of and never allowed yourself to try before. Pushing your limits, ignoring your weak whimpers to stop and showing you new incredible intense pleasure. You have no control or ability to resist, knowing you would never willing do all the things I am making you do, because it would make you a total slut, yet you are still extremely aroused and cuming so hard you are unable to deny you are loving it. Do you want feel the sting of my hand and the gentle carress of my skin to explores everything about you. I touch in places few men have been allowed to touch.
I am savoring every sensation it is creating in you and you find you are becoming even more aroused with my skill and want me to feed you this hard cock so you can show me how aroused you are becoming.
While you are resting from the last event I begins to explore your body with my tongue. You have never felt this excited and you feel the waves of pleasure building again starting to take over your body again . Once more you welcome my touch and use of you. Then you explode and squirt all over the bed , my face and fingers.
I then roll you over, slides a vibrator inside your very hot wet pussy.With a hand full of your hair I slides my well lubed hard cock deep into your tight ass. You feel my total dominance now as I rides you like the slut your are, using your hair as leverage to fuck you deeply, you scream out in intense pleasure as you know I owns you now, you completely surrender to me, feeling my swell and get much harder and then start filling your hot ass . You are exploding with pleasure now. Your legs are quivering, your heart pounding as you feel me fucking you like I am breeding you. This feels like for ever until that final pump and we both collapse in each others arms as I holds you showing you how much I appreciates your gift of submission.
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I'm patient, take my time, and am constantly attuned to how you are responding.
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Posted:Jun 4, 2007 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2007 1:32 pm
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Well, I pride myself in being different and for starters, I stay down and keep going until you tell me to stop or clearly start reaching for parts of my anatomy. I will take my time, starting with nice soft kissing, then deep kissing. I will slowly work on your neck, using my lips and tongue with just the right touch. I will work down toward your breasts, giving each a total oral workover. I then kiss your stomach and slowly work downward.
I'm patient, take my time, and am constantly attuned to how you are responding. I then work between your legs, orally exploring your inner thighs in just the way I did your neck. I finally go to your labia, then your clitoris, ever so carefully and slowly, licking, kissing, sucking. Again, I work in synch with your response, being aware of how your body tenses or relaxes...the sounds you make or not make. I know how to make you feel incredible from tongue fucking, both slow and fast,to having you ride my face or eating you out doggy style. And of course expect this to be repeated several times during the course of our encounter in no specific order, unless of course you tell me to do something specific which of course, I will oblige.
Once I've finally brought you to several orgasms, I will not stop and will continue to keep pleasuring you. I don't even need to climax as long as I know you're being pleasured-- that's more sexy to me than anything else in the world. I will RETURN to your pussy again and again, and kiss it, lick it, and caress it until YOU climax again. This is about giving you a tongue bath for a good hour or two, or even more, if you are able to last receiving so much oral stimulation.
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Nothing gets me more aroused than going down on a female who wants it
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Posted:Jun 2, 2007 1:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2007 1:42 pm
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I keep hearing from females I know that very few males are truly talented at cunnilingus. I have always wondered why but they keep telling me that many guys are not into it and do not really care about getting the female off as best they can. I guess I realized early on that every female is different. I of course listen and pay attention to make sure that any female I am with will be having a great time and tailor what I do to meet her sexual appetite.
You must be wondering how I can even be so egotistical and state that I am so talented. I am not egotistical but truly love giving orally and below are some of the reasons why I like to think I am fairly good at it:
1. I want to do go down- I don't want to go down only for you to reciprocate or worse, hoping that it'll encourage you to pay my manhood a visit. I want to be there. I like to make encouraging sounds like "mmm," "ooh" and "aah" to make you know I am enjoying the act. And I am enjoying it. Nothing gets me more aroused than going down on a female who wants it.
2.I move slowly- Nothing heightens the sexual experience for me like taking things slowly. I like to start out with small, slow strokes of the tongue and gradually make the strokes longer (covering the labia), but keep the pace slow at all times.
3. I have a very strong tongue-Instead of keeping my tongue relaxed whilst tickling your pink, I opt instead to give my tongue that razor's edge by making it pointy and licking you all over your pussy. Soft is nice, but hard can be fantastic for you.
4. I use fingers-While the tongue is great and, well, necessary for oral sex, throwing a couple of my fingers into the mix will definitely up the ante, so to speak. I use my clean, nail-trimmed fingers to manipulate your body from the inside, while my tongue continues to do its thing on the outside. Multiple sensations may lead to other multiples.
5.I play with your butt-In the spirit of fingers, while my index finger is finding its way inside your pussy, I use my thumb to simply rub the rim of your anus. If you react in a very positive way, I'll wet a finger with your juices and slowly insert my finger into your anus. But remember; once that finger goes in the back way, I won't put it in the front again.
6. I will massage while I eat you-I do not want to be restricted to the genital area of your body; I want to periodically use my hands to hold on to your waist and hips, and I want to manipulate your nipples with my fingers while my mouth is busy at work below. As well, I like to massage your butt cheeks, rub your thighs, or even play with your ankles and feet.
Conclusion
Eating pussy should be nice and slow at times and occasionally quick and fast. I'm more of a nice and slow person...my tongue works better that way. Besides, I like to take my time in doing something that i love. But believe me i know when to pick up the pace.
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letting a man do with you as he pleases?
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Posted:Apr 25, 2007 10:34 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2007 7:53 am
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Imagine me slowly coming up behind you as my arms reach around your front side and softly begin to squeeze your breasts as I slowly kiss and lick the back of your neck. My hands gently caress your chest as I slowly rub them up and down your stomach, feeling your soft curves. You can feel the erection in my pants getting bigger as my waist is pressed against your butt. You slowly take off your shirt as I begin to lower myself, kissing and licking you as I make my way down to your lower back and begin to grab and squeeze your ass, enjoying the softness and the curve of it. I stand up again and my arms around you once more to feel your breasts and soft curves as I proceed to slowly slide my hand down your stomach and go under your pants. You can feel my fingers slightly above your pussy as they move in a slow circular motion that's makes you nice and wet as I give the tip of your clit a teasing rub. I begin to unbutton your pants as they slowly slide down your hips exposing your soft legs. I then tell you to get on all fours at the edge of the bed with your legs wide open. It's now inspection time. With your panties still on I can see that some of your wetness has soaked through to the other side. My hands massage your ass and the softness of your legs as I admire the shape of your female form. As my hands are massaging your ass I lower my self to kiss it and lick your inner legs. By this time your are dripping wet. I bring your lets back together as I slowly slide off your panties and expose everything. I give your pussy a few teasing licks in a nice and slow up and down rhythmic motion as I taste all of the sweetness from your silky soft juices..........................This is where I stop typing. Instead of typing about what's going to happen next, how about we meet to see if there is good chemistry between us to finish out the rest of this story in person?
Does that idea appeal to you? Have you ever fantasized about being submissive and letting a man do with you as he pleases?
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the first time you really touch someone you haven't touched yet, and every action is electric.
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Posted:Mar 15, 2007 9:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2008 9:08 am
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You know, the first time you really touch someone you haven't touched yet, and every action is electric. Your skin tinges, and every place that your skin meets causes an almost disproportionate reaction. The wetness of your mouths, the more delicious wetness that starts to well up inside. And the first kissing-the soft kissing, sucking of the earlobes, hands on the neck, pressing our still clothed bodies together-you feel like you're exploding with anticipation. It feels like you could make out forever. And I'm in charge. I'm stronger than you, and you can feel it.
I could, and will place in you in positions where you are completely vulnerable. You can feel from the way I touch you that you're safe, that you can let go. You feel like this makes sense. You feel relaxed and thrilled at the same time. You know that soon, you will be grabbed hard, your legs spread open, and fucked hard and helpless. I run my fingers all over you, glossing gently over the areas that I'm going to work hard later on. I want to wind you up like a top, get you sopping wet. I start to be able to smell your pussy-that sweet, pungent smell that drives me nuts. My dick is rock hard, but I'm not even going to let you see it yet.
Maybe I want to rip your clothes off all at once, maybe I want to take them off a little at a time, I don't know. But I know that after I've spent some time licking your body, biting your tits, I'm thinking about licking your pussy. I love the way it looks just before you take your panties off (if you wear panties!) That little triangle tucked neatly behind that thin piece of cloth. And I want to tease it for a long time, licking around your inner things, just barely touching your pussy with my tongue, letting your pussy open up all by itself like a little flower, your clit swollen. You're dying for me to just run my tongue lavishly across the whole thing, to feel a river of wet between your legs. "You want me to eat your pussy?" "How bad?" "Are you going to be a little slut for me? Suck my cock whenever and wherever I want it?" Of course, you say 'yes,' enthusiastically to all.
You cannot possibly imagine, in your wildest dreams, how much I will love licking you. You'll practically have to tear me away. I will poke and prod, run my tongue all over you, run my fingers all over you, inside of you, paying close attention to every quiver, every signal your body puts out. It's such a fascinating game, played on such a high level. It's like paying jazz. You have to listen with your soul.
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Tonight will be the 1st time I will taste her
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Posted:Mar 6, 2007 7:54 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2007 6:49 pm
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Your breathing gets heavier. Your nipples are caught between my fingers, so each time I rub my palms on your beautiful breasts, my fingers gently rub against your nipples. I can feel them getting harder. I then step back, my hands still on your breasts, and kiss you behind your neck, right above the shoulders. Then, slowly slide my tongue down your spine. I can hear you moan softly. My hands start to slide down from your breast, down your tummy, all the way down... they stop just a hair above your pussy. Then both my hands part and start to slide down each of your thighs. As they do, the fingers barely touch the outside of your lips.
I turn you around, and help spread your stance a little wider. I look up at you, you're watching. Our eyes lock for a moment. We just stare at each other as I notice your breathing getting heavier. Your hands are on my head, slowly rubbing my hair. I look down at your pussy, then bring my head in close and start to French kiss your lower lips and mumble.. "I love the way you taste.." I suck on you intently as my tongue finds it's way inside you. I grab your ass with both hands hard, just as my tongue enters you. You moan again with pleasure and say, "oh baby, don't stop......... that feels so good." My fingers cup your ass. They meet right in between your cheeks and start to slide down slowly. They start to slide down further, brushing pass anus slowly. You're wondering what I’m up to. They keep moving further till it reaches that fleshy spot right between your anus and pussy.
I start to massage you there as I continue to eat you out. My lips surround your clit, and I start to suck on it, gently rubbing my lips around it as my tongue starts to flick it around, you start to moan louder and say. "Yes... don't stop baby. Faster.." I slide two fingers into your pussy and start to finger-fuck you as my tongue continues to play with your clit while I suck on it at the same time. The pleasure spreads from that tiny little spot between your legs and tremors all the way through your body. Your knees are week, you tremble and moan with pleasure, holding on to my head and neck for support. I continue eating you and finger-fucking you till you cum again, almost as if they were one big orgasm instead of two.
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Posted:Feb 14, 2007 8:34 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2007 7:23 am
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When I as a guy personally meet a woman for the first time on a ThreeSomeFinder.com date, it has been my experience that both of us can instantaneously sense mutual physical ATTRACTION. That part is easy, automatic and subconscious, because it’s just sheer animal instinct between our two sexes that tells us if we each look healthy and alluring enough for potentially having an enjoyable carnal experience with each other.
However, so-called CHEMISTRY is not always that easy or automatic to detect. We often have to work a little harder for that. Imagine if we meet as two married/attached people for the very first time under these somewhat embarrassing circumstances. Consider that we, as mid 30ish to mid 40ish adults, are both rusty because we haven’t openly dated for years but have to act very discretely in public and avoid obvious flirting! Chemistry can be hard to detect, when it is clouded by one or both of us feeling/acting nervous, awkward, watched or self-conscious in such a heart-racing setup. It doesn’t even matter how many discrete first meetings like that we may have had before, but this “stage fright” never goes away completely, because every person we meet is new, unique and different, and so is the dynamic between two people.
There are three concepts I found helpful in overcoming these obstacles for us to allow "chemistry, sparks, fireworks, skyrockets or electricity" to unfold naturally:
( LET’S KEEP OUR EXPECTATIONS LOW TO LEAVE ENOUGH ROOM FOR POSITIVE SURPRISES later on, as our connection evolves! Chemistry doesn’t always happen as instantaneously as physical attraction, especially when we are rusty and nervous about the whole thing! Let’s keep in mind that we are just looking for hopefully some nice ongoing fun and intimacy with a trustworthy, special new friend! We are NOT looking for a new spouse, life partner or full-time relationship this time. So maybe for the first time in our lives our criteria and expectations need to be downgraded accordingly to leave plenty of room for positive improvements and unexpected amazements later on!?
(I LET’S LOOK AT IT AS THE GLASS BEING 3/4 FULL INSTEAD OF 1/4 EMPTY. If we have already determined that the other person has (1) an attractive and healthy looking body, (2) a nice, sane, trustworthy and charming personality and (3) sounds interesting, smart, articulate and sincere to speak with, then those are already 3 out of 4 things we were hoping for. That ain’t bad, if you stop and consider it for a sec! Let’s be grateful if those three hard-to-find aspects already exist and relax, to allow the fourth one (that elusive chemistry or spark) to unfold itself. Sometimes this can take a few hours of not just sitting and talking but also doing some things with each other, like walking/strolling down the street or watching a movie together.
(II LET’S REALIZE THAT SOMETIMES ONLY A PASSIONATE KISS CAN REVEAL TRUE CHEMISTRY. This completely true, time-tested method can surprise us in both directions! Chemistry you thought you had with someone can suddenly disappear when you kiss that person. --Or even better-- Chemistry we were not sure existed can suddenly be brought to life when a simple tongue kiss between us becomes so passionately uniting that it opens both of our hearts and gets our blood and energy moving to all the right parts in our bodies.
So here is my simple, straightforward proposal: If our email chats and conversations sound interesting, smart, articulate and sincere and our photos look good, let’s meet. If then during our date we find each other physically attractive, nice, sane, trustworthy and charming, but we aren’t 100% sure about that chemistry yet, then let’s agree to have just one simple kiss in some private corner or dark back row of a movie theater for any long awaited chemistry or fireworks to hopefully charm the pants off each other!
HEY, IT’S JUST ONE KISS, no big deal in the long lives of us two sexually experienced adults, right? But that one kiss can tell you so much more than anything else of how you erotically feel about someone and how much more intimate you may want to become with that potential lover. I find that for me THIS FIRST KISS IS ALWAYS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING ELSE. Anybody with any romantic experience knows that great kissers make awesome lovers! Certainly in my case that’s completely true from what I’ve been told time after time during my adult life. So anyway, if we look and feel “kissable” to each other, let’s simply kiss and find out about that spark or electricity between us first! Now, are you gonna take me up on my challenge or not?
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I am faced with a delightful view, and opportunity for some sweet treats
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Posted:Feb 12, 2007 9:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2007 7:05 am
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We finish having dinner at my place. You begin to clear the table. I grab you by the waist.As you move up onto the table, your skirt slides up a bit, and to get more comfortable, you pull it up even further so that your bare ass is now directly on the tabletop, cool, yet a bit refreshing. A contrast in temperatures, so hot and so cool. With your legs spread now on each chair, and your skirt now nearly fully open yet still tied at the top, I am faced with a delightful view, and opportunity. You are leaning back on your elbows with such great anticipation. You raise your hips slightly to meet what you expect to be there, my mouth now moving slowly up your inner thigh. Again, a trail of a very slow and deliberate french kisses gently flick and dart on your inner thigh. With every flick, you raise and flinch towards me, your thong now very wet.
My mouth is softly blowing warm breaths against your aching lips, your wetness now fully soaking my fingers and hand. Two fingers do in fact find their way to your wetness, sliding just inside so effortlessly, each finger then parting, opening your lovely lips. My tongue poised just millimeters away, you can feel it, so hot and so eager to taste you, but wanting to drive you to the brink of insanity. Oh yes, what a place to linger. As I hear your moans, your pleading to please, please, I am so very horny, so unbelievably full of desire for you. I lay my tongue fully across your lips, plunging once deeply, then slowly from the very bottom, up your oh so wet crack, all the way up to your now aching clit, then gently sucking once, then flicking gently back and forth. As the electricity jolts you inside, swirling and flicking, I again plunge deep inside. Yes, you do taste so fantastic. I am in ecstasy, absolute heaven.
Your skirt slides up a bit, and to get more comfortable, you pull it up even further so that your bare ass is now directly on the tabletop, cool, yet a bit refreshing. A contrast in temperatures, so hot and so cool. With your legs spread now on each chair, and your skirt now nearly fully open yet still tied at the top, I am faced with a delightful view, and opportunity. You are leaning back on your elbows with such great anticipation. You raise your hips slightly to meet what you expect to be there, my mouth now moving slowly up your inner thigh. Again, a trail of a very slow and deliberate french kisses gently flick and dart on your inner thigh. With every flick, you raise and flinch towards me, your thong now very wet.
My mouth is softly blowing warm breaths against your aching lips, your wetness now fully soaking my fingers and hand. Two fingers do in fact find their way to your wetness, sliding just inside so effortlessly, each finger then parting, opening your lovely lips. My tongue poised just millimeters away, you can feel it, so hot and so eager to taste you, but wanting to drive you to the brink of insanity. Oh yes, what a place to linger. As I hear your moans, your pleading to please, please, I am so very horny, so unbelievably full of desire for you. I lay my tongue fully across your lips, plunging once deeply, then slowly from the very bottom, up your oh so wet crack, all the way up to your now aching clit, then gently sucking once, then flicking gently back and forth. As the electricity jolts you inside, swirling and flicking, I again plunge deep inside. Yes, you do taste so fantastic. I am in ecstasy, absolute heaven.
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What winks like a owl ,but fuck like a tiger
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Posted:Feb 3, 2007 6:58 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2007 6:50 pm
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So it's a rainy night and I was looking for some company. You come over looking all sexy ... Before I can take off your coat you ask me "what winks like a Owl but fuck like a tiger" Before I can answer we start kissing . First softly then getting harder and more passionately.. I work my way down to your neck and start kissing your neck for a while... kissing and licking... taking a nibble here and a nibble there...I then un button (or take off) your shirt and work my way down to your breasts.. Where I suck and kiss on one and then make my way to the other one.. Caressing them and I kiss and suck on them... I take your hand and place it on my lap.. you feel my rock hard cock through my jeans.. you can't help yourself but to take it out and feel it in your hands.. then you start sucking it... we then make our way into the bedroom where we get completely naked.. we get in the bed and start kissing deeply and passionately.. again I start at your neck and work my way down to your breasts then kiss you all over your stomach and make my way down there... but first I would kiss every inch around it..before I licked and sucked on you.. I would go down on you for at least 15-20 minutes straight without stopping.
After that I take my cock (after putting on a condom of course) and I put the tip of it in... I fuck you with just the head of my cock for a few minutes and lean in and ask ever so softly "do you want more of it?" you will most likely say yes but I will say "nope" and just fuck you with just the head.. after a few minutes I would push it in just a little deeper and fuck you like that.. lean in again and ask if you wanted more you would say yes but again I would deny you.
I would do that until my cock was about halfway in you... then I would lean in and ask if you want it all.. you will say yes and I will say no.. and fuck you twice as long as I did the other times..then when you least expect it.. on I will shove it deep inside you and fuck your brains out.
You feel my dick twitch which is the sign I am about to cum. You look me dead in the eye and ask can you taste it. I pull out of your hot wet box You yank off the condom spit on my dick and start jerking me off. As you stroke my dick you and lick my balls. You can feel my legs begin to shake...you know it will only be seconds before I whistle and cover you with my sweet load. My body tightens up as I cum in your mouth. little bit of sperm is on your hand and finger , you lick it off with a smile and wink...... w/that
I now know the answer to the riddle
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I raise myself to kiss you with mouthful of your sweet female champagne
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Posted:Jan 29, 2007 8:30 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2007 3:07 pm
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I pour glass of champagne. As I take a sip, I leave mouthful of the sparkling wine in my mouth for you to share with me in a kiss. You feel that first...soft brush of the lips... barely touching yours. Just moist enough to give you goose bumps. No words are exchanged. Some soft gentle sucking is introduced. You feel your lower lip tugged on...
The intensity builds as we continue to kiss, our lips slowly brushing against each other, and
Tingles of pleasure rippling through our bodies. Just then I slowly hike up your dress, from your knees, all the way up to your waist. I very gently pull your panties off. But that's it. I let your dress fall back. I sense a little wetness on the panties.
We continue to kiss passionately...
I lift your legs up so you can wrap them around my hips. Your arms around my neck for support.
I then walk towards the bedroom, while you're still wrapped around me. Our lips lock again into a warm soft kiss. I slide my fingers down your back, in a claw like motion; you can feel the pleasure spread through your body. I gently lay you down on the bed and start to kiss your neck and then ears. Gently sucking on them. Then down to your neck. My hands gently cup your breasts, and slowly squeeze them.
You can begin to feel the pleasure building again. I pull your dress back up to your waist again, and start to hover my lips over your pubic hair. Then, slowly move down... lower... my tongue finally touches you. You moan, I then licks you up and down with long slow strokes. My fingers find the opening and just touch the outer surface. I can feel your wetness. I then
Lick off my fingers to taste you. I have to get more. As my fingers part your lips, my tongue starts to slide inside you, circling around, exploring.
One of my fingers gently hovers over your clit as my tongue explores inside you. Slowly I introduce another finger, and then another into the rubbing motion. As I feel you moan with pleasure, I start to rub you faster; my other hand's fingers start to slide inside you, all the way in. You moan again. I continue pleasuring you until... you... explode with pleasure in my mouth....
I raise myself to kiss you with mouthful of your sweet female champagne .Then the ripples start from between your legs and slowly spread through every inch of your body... your body quivers with each ripple of pleasure...
Part II Do you like how you taste when we kiss
I'm lying in bed. You have no idea that I'm watching you get dressed... You slip on your black lace panties, I look at your beautiful body and the way the black lace hugs you’re as perfectly. And only one thought goes through my
Mind, "I want you!"
You only have your panties and bra on so far and
Already it's too much for me. I can't take it any
Longer. I quickly jump up, grab on to your hips and pull you back into bed. You're shocked for a moment and then giggle when you realize what's going on. Your smile is back on as you anticipate what's going to happen next...
I take off your bra quickly and then stop for a
Moment, admiring your beautiful breasts. I then kiss you passionately, as I hold your face gently with my hands. I move on to your neck and start sucking on it. Then down your chest, and then up to sucking on your earlobes. My hand cups your breast and my palm starts rubbing on them gently, in a circular motion. I move down to kiss your breasts, my tongue circling your nipples, teeth nibbling on them playfully. As I bite them, you wince with a little pain, but mostly pleasure.
By now your body is lit up like a Christmas tree, you can feel the tingles all over. I can hear your soft moans - they turn me on even more and I can feel myself becoming harder still.
As I kiss and lick on your breasts, my hand slowly begins to slide down your tummy... past your belly button now... moving further still... till it finally disappears inside your panties. I can hear you moan again as you feel my fingers slowly rubbing against your moist, velvety warm folds, gently sliding over them, up and down. I move back up to your face and kiss you again passionately, just as my fingers part your folds and slide inside you. I slowly finger-fuck you as we continue to kiss. My fingers gently gliding over your clit every time I pull in and out of you. I can already feel you beginning to cum. I can feel the tremors inside of you, and then you explode into a massive orgasm.
I give you a moment to catch your breath. I pull my fingers out of you; they're glistening wet with your sweet juices. I suck on them and taste your sweet juices. The taste and smell turns me on even more. (I can sense immediately that I'll be pleasuring your pussy again with my tongue and lips later, as the day progresses.) I bring the fingers to your lips; you suck on them too and taste your own juices. Then we both kiss again.
As we're kissing, I guide your hips with my hand so we turn to lie on our sides; I pull one of your legs around my waist and slowly guide my hard throbbing cock inside your warm, wet, swollen pussy. Inch by inch it disappears completely inside you. We continue to kiss as I slowly start pushing my cock in and out
Of you...
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